Me M(24) and my LTR F(24) have been together for 2 years, she was a virgin before she met me and gave it up in 2 weeks. The first year she was interested in me sexually, often times initiating sex when we are together. Now in the second year she has moved long distance due to her job, when we are together (sometimes only one day a month) she denies and does not iniate sex.
After being in this LTR I had begun to get lazy and comfortable again resulting in my previous BP'ed mentality coming through.
Something related to this topic is that my LTR feels uncomfortable discussing about anything sexual.
Can I salvage this LTR?
1mo ago TheRedPill
Me M(24) and my LTR F(24) have been together for 2 years, she was a virgin before she met me and gave it up in 2 weeks. The first year she was interested in me sexually, often times initiating sex when we are together. Now in the second year she has moved long distance due to her job, when we are together (sometimes only one day a month) she denies and does not iniate sex.
After being in this LTR I had begun to get lazy and comfortable again resulting in my previous BP'ed mentality coming through.
Something related to this topic is that my LTR feels uncomfortable discussing about anything sexual.
Can I salvage this LTR?
1mo ago TheRedPill
Me M(24) and my LTR F(24) have been together for 2 years, she was a virgin before she met me and gave it up in 2 weeks. The first year she was interested in me sexually, often times initiating sex when we are together. Now in the second year she has moved long distance due to her job, when we are together (sometimes only one day a month) she denies and does not iniate sex.
After being in this LTR I had begun to get lazy and comfortable again resulting in my previous BP'ed mentality coming through.
Something related to this topic is that my LTR feels uncomfortable discussing about anything sexual.
Can I salvage this LTR?
You should've cut her loose when she let you know that she'd need to move for her job and gotten yourself back on the hunt. Her decision to move was the most glaringly obvious sign that the relationship with you wasn't valuable to her.
In the meantime, consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
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