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@Dark108 So, first, a "your loss" answer would be, of course, better, if this was what you truly believed.

Authenticity is quite straightforward: express what you really feel deep inside. The problem being that, in order for the chick to bite, what you feel deep inside must be positive. It's the dynamic behind shit-tests: adversity reveals your mettle or your weakness.

So if you feel shaken, which is, actually, the normal reaction towards rejection, you still can tap onto your perseverance, the belief that you'll still be fine without her. Use that to convey a sense of strength.

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@Typo-MAGAshiv haha - my bad!!!

    

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@Ill_Will7 I do this too...it's hard to separate it when trp becomes a part of who you are! @Vermillion-Rx - great term!!!

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@Ill_Will7 nice...you got me thinking lol!

    

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@adam-l thanks bro, what are the practical aspects of authenticity you are talking about? She was a cool chick, not really my type but HB 5/6.

    

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@Dark108 maybe displaying authenticity might have worked better. If she's not a huge bitch, displaying your light disappointment but wishing her well, could be better. In any case, since you're not seeing her again, it's just a game with yourself.

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I met this girl recently, and I’m open to talking to people in general, so I just started a casual chat. She mentioned she was from Estonia, and since I’ve travelled a bit, I guessed it right. We talked for a while, and she told me she works for a company I’m familiar with (I might’ve overdone it by calling them evil a few too many times, lol).

At some point, I noticed her hands were cold and commented on it, and she said something like, “I’m not that kind of girl.” That kind of threw me off, so I backed off for a bit. Later, as she was about to leave the bus, I asked for her number—more out of habit than genuine interest since we’re in different cities—and when she said no, I said, “Your loss.”

In hindsight, I realise saying “your loss” was kind of stupid and reactive. It didn’t come from a place of confidence but frustration. A better way might’ve been to let her go with something like, “Alright, take care, maybe we’ll cross paths again.” It’s got me thinking about how to handle rejection better and keep the vibe light without trying to force a win.

What are your thoughts on this? How do you handle situations where things don’t go as planned? Do you think saying “your loss” just comes off as salty, and how would you approach moments like this with more abundance?

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Happy New Year!! This year will be filled with growth, depth, abundance and power for each and every one of you!!!

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My bad! I meant it is… shit I can’t even edit my post!! Let’s correct it…May this year be filled with growth, depth, abundance and power to each and everyone of you!!!

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Happy New Year guys! May this year not filled with growth, depth, abundance, and power to each and every of y’all filthy animals!!!

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Focusing on self-mastery and aligning actions with higher principles. The journey begins with mastering oneself, overcoming internal chaos, and embracing a life led by values, resilience, and integrity.

"Building Inner Strength, Redefining Masculinity, and Living with Purpose."

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Secure masculinity is rooted in self-awareness, honesty, and unshakable standards. Respect is earned and given as a reward for positive behaviour, not compromised for validation. By embodying confidence, detachment, and integrity, a man creates trust and polarity, allowing feminine energy to flourish. Honesty and a willingness to walk away demonstrate inner security, aligning with purpose and attracting meaningful connections.


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