2mo ago TheRedPill
I admitted to my girlfriend I search girls up on Instagram. She responded back saying “how would you feel if I searched guys up?”
I told her it’s different between man and woman. I asked her if she does, and she says she doesn’t, but if she’s on Tik Tok and a video of an attractive guy appears, she may click on the profile.
Is this concerning? She admitted she might click on the profile, but won’t go out of her way to search up.
She doesn’t have Instagram, just in Tik Tok.
Other relevant points:
- she doesn’t have male friends
- she has proven she shuts down a guy talking to her the moment she noticed him hitting on her
Girlfriend clicks on profile of attractive guys on Tik Tok
O I (28M) admitted to my girlfriend (30F) can I search girls up on Instagram. She responded back saying “how would you feel if I searched guys up?”
I told her it’s different between man and woman. I asked her if she does, and she says she doesn’t, but if she’s on Tik Tok and a video of an attractive guy appears, she may click on the profile.
Is this concerning? She admitted she might click on the profile, but won’t go out of her way to search up.
She doesn’t have Instagram, just in Tik Tok.
Other relevant points:
- she doesn’t have male friends
- she has proven she shuts down a guy talking to her the moment she noticed him hitting on her
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