@Stigma You are damn right. I will try harder

Hey you

This is lind of a rant, but also a question about overall mental health..... So, I am a PGY 1 Surgical Resident here in Latin America; yesterday during a case I was thrown out of it because my attending said I was goddam slow; I wasn't even allowed to perform advanced procedures during the case, maybe because I havent done as many myself.

I am feeling pretty low right now, I feel that I should maybe quit residency.... I feel like I have fallen behind in competency; just think I am not good enough, that I ought to study a fuck ton more

Just a thought, I mean; how can I stop feeling like shit all the time?

Hey, what happened to GayLubeOIl?

@FrancoAP

getting head somewhere along the road is mandatory?

Do you mean actual road head? As in, a beej while driving?

Too dangerous. I start swerving. Never again.

Or do you mean "along the road" as in "sometime"? If that's what you meant, I mean, that's entirely up to you. One of my exes was a great fuck, but gave lousy head. I was fine with just fucking. For some dudes, that may have been a dealbreaker, but I was OK with it.

@FrancoAP

so, I had this thought: In every relationship, getting head somewhere along the road is mandatory? I mean, should we be weary of every woman that refuses? I mean, just got one yesterday, and, I noticed that another girl that refused a couple years ago turned out to be a flake...

Receiving unprompted offers can be a ego boost in the moment, but I'd otherwise agree that guys in relationships should generally be concerned if she's no longer showing sexual interest in them. How far they should be concerned would probably depend on what sort of relationship the couple has though.

so, I had this thought: In every relationship, getting head somewhere along the road is mandatory? I mean, should we be weary of every woman that refuses? I mean, just got one yesterday, and, I noticed that another girl that refused a couple years ago turned out to be a flake...

@FrancoAP naw

If women had never been granted voting privileges, I doubt FDR's "New Deal" or LBJ's "Great Society" crap would have ever come to pass

Allowing women a say in how things are done was the cause, not a byproduct

@FrancoAP

The only difference between "modern-day feminism" and the feminism of the 1848 Seneca Falls Conference is a date stamp.

Ideologically, they're fundamentally identical. Anyone who says differently is selling something.

@FrancoAP

Partially.

No more mister nice guy summed it up quite well. A ton of alphas went and died in WW2 and then single mothers and an education system that was once male dominated but had to become female dominanted due to the war enlistments left men being housed and taught by women

Yes a ton of men dying left a more liberal society but it's deeper, the 40's and 50s were female supplanted leadership as a result of men being sent for slaughter

@deeplydisturbed I think that modern-day feminism and sexual liberty is more a byproduct of an extremely liberal society.