@Lone_Ranger Thanks! I did not do it on purpose at first but then it just because something funny for me. To just see her trying to get me to say what it meant.

@Typo-MAGAshiv Yeah, I'm just trying to dumb it down to understand it, otherwise I get lost in the details.

@Goingthedistance

You said it better, free attention, I was thinking it was more like a free emotional tampon.

Similar concepts with lots of overlap.

@Vermillion-Rx

This appears way too thought out

It's just a limit I've set for myself to not get into the texting too much, too much meaning weeks. The sooner I know if she's down or not the sooner I can move on either to a new girl or to meet with her.

The only reason a woman would not see you again

They did see me again, that's why I keep saying that I'm fucking up somewhere.

@Lone_Ranger What I did the last time I got this fuckboy accusation was to go dumb and say "Am I? Well that explains a lot of things".

The moment I heard from her "what things? what do you mean?". That's the moment I knew i had to just leave the subject unanswered.

@RPschreding Claiming to be a church going boy in a sarcastic way is always resulting in laughter from them. However, I cannot deny that I managed to fuck it up like this before, so I still need to learn how to do this properly.

@Typo-MAGAshiv That's why I'm not doing all that feel good talking, via texting or phone calls or even video calls. You said it better, free attention, I was thinking it was more like a free emotional tampon.

Moving from texting to meeting is not my problem anymore, escalation from the initial meet to more than hugs and a kiss is where I'm messing something up. With two chicks I managed to mess it up somehow and it still a lesson to be learned there.

@RPschreding Precisely what I'm working on. I've been overly nice all my life and that's what I'm trying to fix. Saying 'no' more was one of them, being a 'total dick' is not exactly something that i can or want to be. For example, I'll never go insulting women in the hopes I look like an asshole, I think my meanest thing so far is being a bit more banter oriented with them women.

@Vermillion-Rx Should have used the quotes for you then.

@Vermillion-Rx I don't think I ever said that I want to be a dick with everyone at all times, if that's what it came across, then my bad. My idea as more along the lines of how I said it the first time, saying "No" to people, especially to girls. "Hey can we do a small photoshoot pwleeaasseee" <- yeah not getting used for free pics to get your clicks. And ofc the crowd's favorite "Can u give me a ride?".

You also fail

I didn't say any of those things, keep your pants on. I was only saying that I'm learning to not be overly nice when it doesn't suit me, because when that worked out for anyone anyway.