@Johan

Should i ask this girl in a date again?

Basically met this 18yo girl at a festival, she was super into me, we kissed and everything, i'm pretty sure she was a virgin, anyway i got cockblock by her friends at the end

She texted me right after, that she had a great time and everything, i replied, and then she initiated some texting again

since i usually text for setting up date only, i told her

• me : we should get a drink so we can get to know each other
• her : i'm very sorry, i like you a lot and i had a great time, but you are 23 and i'm still in highschool, the age gap is a little problem to me
• me : i understand, no problem

No text for 2 weeks, and now she is spamming me of text, double texting, she is super needy, if i don't reply within a few mins, she text "where are u?"

should i ask her out again, or should i wait for her to do so? cause yeah i hate texting for nothing

You're the one who's interacted with her, not us. We're just a gaggle of anonymous internet nobodies. You're the one with the firsthand experience regarding that festival face sucking and what followed, but don't jump to any wild conclusions regarding her chastity. She'd just met you when you'd begun sucking face after all.

However, whether you should or shouldn't ask her out on a date is entirely up to you. At this point, the worst this girl can do, if you finally decide to ask her out, is say 'no'. Though, I'm kind of curious if you spent any time asking out other females at all during the two weeks the festival girl wasn't in touch. Two weeks is a long time to remain reluctant to ask out, or on standby for, any one female. You might have let other girls you came across pass you by without so much as a hello and that's the bigger concern in my mind.

Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.

@Johan

Why zoomers are scared to approach/interact with girls?

There is a guy on IG who post videos of him approaching girls with an hidden camera in his sunglasses

He approach girls by giving them a few compliments, ask them very basic question, then go for the number

Everytime he post a video there is like 250 comments of mens being like

• "wow i bench 300 lbs but i could not approach a girl like you do"
• "how you learnt to be so smooth while interacting with girls?"
• "this guy is a super chad for sure"
• "this guy will steal our girls"

feels like knowing how to properly interact with a girl in 2024 is a super rare ability for the younger generation or something?

and even with alcohol, men rarely approach at the club, but just stand in the corner, yet they go to the club in hope of getting laid

As I've mentioned before, one of the fundamental problems with modern society is that males are conditioned to be dysfunctional females, while females are indoctrinated to be inferior men. What you're seeing is the end result, intended by design as responsible fathers are ejected from the household and otherwise publicly maligned in society.

@Johan

I'm 33 and I lied about my age to my 18yo gf, not sure what to do

I basically look younger than my age, and most girls actually believe i'm 23, when in reality i'm 33

I started lying about my age because i had girls super into me, and when i end up revealing my age, it doesn't work out

I usually don't care to lie about my age when it's plate/ons/fwb stuff

I met this 18yo girl 3 months ago at a festival, and she is really nice, smart etc ... only had 1 BF

the problem is that i lied to her from the get go when i met her, i claimed i was a 23 yo student

and now its been 3 monts since then, she is very attached to me, and i like her aswell but damn lying about everything is just too overwhelming

i just dont know what to do, either end things or tell her the true?

what would you suggest bros?

That you stop concerning yourself with what a group of strangers like us think, provide this girl you're dating no further lies, and go with your gut regardless of the potential consequences which may result from divulging this truth to her. If you want to tell this girl you're dating the truth as to your age, then make a plan, then follow-through, and do it. I'd suggest that if you both frequent bars, pubs, or other business that check ID, you swap each others ID cards so you both know each others date of birth. When she asks questions regarding your age, confirm that your ID is telling her the truth as to your date of birth and ask if hers is as well. When she asks about the difference of ten years and if you earlier lied, apologize, and offer to make it up to her. Grant her the time to process how she wants to proceed with that revelation be it a week, or a month or two, but otherwise make no more unnecessary attempts to lie to her from here onwards.

Aside for that, consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.