how you react to being called creepy is far more telling to them than if you are actually are creepy. When you come to terms with that, approaching them becomes trivial.
I don't recall anyone mentioning being called creepy, does that happen to you often?
cc: @Johan
You miss the point. But if I had a dollar every time I heard someone complain about how they were called a creeper...
I take it you get called creepy fairly often then.
cc: @Johan
Should i ask this girl in a date again?
Basically met this 18yo girl at a festival, she was super into me, we kissed and everything, i'm pretty sure she was a virgin, anyway i got cockblock by her friends at the end
She texted me right after, that she had a great time and everything, i replied, and then she initiated some texting again
since i usually text for setting up date only, i told her
- me : we should get a drink so we can get to know each other
- her : i'm very sorry, i like you a lot and i had a great time, but you are 23 and i'm still in highschool, the age gap is a little problem to me
- me : i understand, no problem
No text for 2 weeks, and now she is spamming me of text, double texting, she is super needy, if i don't reply within a few mins, she text "where are u?"
should i ask her out again, or should i wait for her to do so? cause yeah i hate texting for nothing
You're the one who's interacted with her, not us. We're just a gaggle of anonymous internet nobodies. You're the one with the firsthand experience regarding that festival face sucking and what followed, but don't jump to any wild conclusions regarding her chastity. She'd just met you when you'd begun sucking face after all.
However, whether you should or shouldn't ask her out on a date is entirely up to you. At this point, the worst this girl can do, if you finally decide to ask her out, is say 'no'. Though, I'm kind of curious if you spent any time asking out other females at all during the two weeks the festival girl wasn't in touch. Two weeks is a long time to remain reluctant to ask out, or on standby for, any one female. You might have let other girls you came across pass you by without so much as a hello and that's the bigger concern in my mind.
Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
Read MoreYou miss the point. But if I had a dollar every time I heard someone complain about how they were called a creeper...
I take it you get called creepy fairly often then.
cc: @Johan
Should i ask this girl in a date again?
Basically met this 18yo girl at a festival, she was super into me, we kissed and everything, i'm pretty sure she was a virgin, anyway i got cockblock by her friends at the end
She texted me right after, that she had a great time and everything, i replied, and then she initiated some texting again
since i usually text for setting up date only, i told her
- me : we should get a drink so we can get to know each other
- her : i'm very sorry, i like you a lot and i had a great time, but you are 23 and i'm still in highschool, the age gap is a little problem to me
- me : i understand, no problem
No text for 2 weeks, and now she is spamming me of text, double texting, she is super needy, if i don't reply within a few mins, she text "where are u?"
should i ask her out again, or should i wait for her to do so? cause yeah i hate texting for nothing
You're the one who's interacted with her, not us. We're just a gaggle of anonymous internet nobodies. You're the one with the firsthand experience regarding that festival face sucking and what followed, but don't jump to any wild conclusions regarding her chastity. She'd just met you when you'd begun sucking face after all.
However, whether you should or shouldn't ask her out on a date is entirely up to you. At this point, the worst this girl can do, if you finally decide to ask her out, is say 'no'. Though, I'm kind of curious if you spent any time asking out other females at all during the two weeks the festival girl wasn't in touch. Two weeks is a long time to remain reluctant to ask out, or on standby for, any one female. You might have let other girls you came across pass you by without so much as a hello and that's the bigger concern in my mind.
Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
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