My “main” plate had a threesome in college (3-5 years ago). I assume this permanently keeps her in the friends with benefits/booty call position. My conflict is that she is very submissive, sexually available and feminine towards me. In public she’s reserved. I’m anticipating the define the relationship question her from her soon. Could someone help me strategize how to handle this conversation when it comes otherwise I anticipate should just be a plate that drops and I promote someone else.

I have an idea of what I’ll do. Just want to get the communities input.

Thanks