@Majorwookie

My “main” plate had a threesome in college (3-5 years ago). I assume this permanently keeps her in the friends with benefits/booty call position. My conflict is that she is very submissive, sexually available and feminine towards me. In public she’s reserved. I’m anticipating the define the relationship question her from her soon. Could someone help me strategize how to handle this conversation when it comes otherwise I anticipate should just be a plate that drops and I promote someone else.

I have an idea of what I’ll do. Just want to get the communities input.

Thanks

Just as I doubt she only had one threesome in her life, I doubt her divulging such past sexual indiscretions has inspired you to want to ever extend to her any exclusivity beyond the moment you're with her. Regardless, she's a plate, because you know she's a slut, she's undeserving of any exclusivity, and thus expendable. Whatever you're planning to do, I'm hopeful that you'll do what is in your best long term interests and won't mislead them into thinking they're on the path to marriage.