@MrSupreme

Is jealousy ever the right move?

Main question in the title.The thing is I was in a long(8year) relationship, and I never,ever showed jealousy.I admit there weren't many times to show it,but it never showed at all. My main mental process was something like "you may flirt and look at her,but my dick is the one that's in her", so why even bother feeling disrespected or upset about it, whether it was her or some other guy starting whatever usually induces jealous feelings. Is this normal? This subject is not talked about enough I think

Also, i'm wondering WHEN it is an appropiate time to show a healthy dose of jealousy.

Eight years is a long time to be romantically involved with one female who's neither your wife, or mother to your children. Regardless, to answer your question, it's best to never show jealously in regards to any female you're involved with romantically. Not only is it contrary to the mindset of abundance, showing jealousy confirms a females suspicions that you have few, if any, alternatives to female companionship and intimacy outside of her. If she's being pursued by other males of either higher status, and/or better looking, than yourself, then she may gradually begin employing dark triad tactics to control you.

Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.