Plate hasn’t broken, I already dropped it and she was acting fine flirty the whole time since then until I almost made her remember
Read MoreVery bizarre situation. Don’t want it removed on main forum so posting here. TLDR: female friend I’ve been banging basically demanding apology for me screaming in her face and saying she was trauma dumping about her boyfriend. I have no recollection of either.
Been messing with her for a bit and she tried to escalate it to dating or going on a date and I politely declined. Anyway one night went to hang out after a night out in a bar and were talking I completely forget what happened but I know for a fact I didn’t scream/shout in her face like she said and I believe it would have been my naturally loud voice and the raised environment being in a bar. She also said I brought up her ex and her trauma dumping.
This also doesn’t make sense I don’t even know what this term is. I wouldn’t use it. I googled it and the context doesn’t make sense because she hasn’t and wouldnt talk about her ex like that to me. So why would I bring him up?
Anyway she hadn’t said anything ( was two weeks ago) and something I said made her remember and say it. I was perplexed so was like that wasn’t meant for me as I couldn’t remember. We go back and forth a bit until she’s like you should feel bad and apologised naturally. So based on your feelings I have to ignore my own mind and apologise? So what if I just feel I’m upset the other person has to apologise immediately?
I end up just saying it’s insincere as I don’t believe what you said and you’ve misread the situation completely and exaggerated it and we’ve hung out and you didn’t even bring it up and wouldn’t have unless I triggered the thought.
Fed up I say ok I apologise. Leaving it at that. Too much drama for me and cba to hang out with someone who will either flat out lie or have no reason for nuance. She knows me so if i did apparently do these things she doesn’t have the brain function to know it wasn’t meant that way.
Very bizarre situation. Don’t want it removed on main forum so posting here. TLDR: female friend I’ve been banging basically demanding apology for me screaming in her face and saying she was trauma dumping about her boyfriend. I have no recollection of either.
Been messing with her for a bit and she tried to escalate it to dating or going on a date and I politely declined. Anyway one night went to hang out after a night out in a bar and were talking I completely forget what happened but I know for a fact I didn’t scream/shout in her face like she said and I believe it would have been my naturally loud voice and the raised environment being in a bar. She also said I brought up her ex and her trauma dumping.
This also doesn’t make sense I don’t even know what this term is. I wouldn’t use it. I googled it and the context doesn’t make sense because she hasn’t and wouldnt talk about her ex like that to me. So why would I bring him up?
Anyway she hadn’t said anything ( was two weeks ago) and something I said made her remember and say it. I was perplexed so was like that wasn’t meant for me as I couldn’t remember. We go back and forth a bit until she’s like you should feel bad and apologised naturally. So based on your feelings I have to ignore my own mind and apologise? So what if I just feel I’m upset the other person has to apologise immediately?
I end up just saying it’s insincere as I don’t believe what you said and you’ve misread the situation completely and exaggerated it and we’ve hung out and you didn’t even bring it up and wouldn’t have unless I triggered the thought.
Fed up I say ok I apologise. Leaving it at that. Too much drama for me and cba to hang out with someone who will either flat out lie or have no reason for nuance. She knows me so if i did apparently do these things she doesn’t have the brain function to know it wasn’t meant that way.
Read More@Typo-MAGAshiv also an older woman that’s hot say like shakira you know is gonna be hot for life. Younger women can fall off
@Lone_Ranger your not that guy pal, trust me you’re not that guy
For sure it’s not so much a regret more of do better next time.. never had that feeling before
@Lone_Ranger does the feeling of what the hell was I thinking go away
Saw my ex at a festival. She had seen me earlier and Text me. Saw her at a bar and then bumped into her in a crowd on her own. Asked to stay with me and I stupidly said yeah. Was awkward at as nothing to say and don’t want anything more from her. She asked if I was gonna introduce her to my friends, i said nah we ain’t dating that’s pointless.
She was curvy last year but pushing it. Has gained even more weight ( carried it well but was like maybe 5’6 88kg) but now has cankles. Validated in my deciison even more whilst she speeds towards and beyond the wall. Good to bump into an ex for once and I’m improving and they’re declining
@Lone_Ranger yeah will stop the face sitting talk but how else am I letting them set the agenda? Can’t reset with this chick v
