Any book recommendations on how I can invest in myself and be better?
I usually spend my time working, working out, and reading self-improvement books, but outside of this, I still have 3-4 hours of free time that I’d like to spend doing something that furthers my long term goals of being successful and attractive.
I come across a lot of arbitrary nonsense on the internet like “hobbies”. Forgive me, but I cannot will myself to spend time doing things that have no bearing on my long term goals.
More work, working out, or reading is not the solution, as one man can only do so much of these in a day.
Ergo, I need a book for some guidance.
Appreciate any advice, guys. Thank you.
Any book recommendations on how I can invest in myself and be better?
I usually spend my time working, working out, and reading self-improvement books, but outside of this, I still have 3-4 hours of free time that I’d like to spend doing something that furthers my long term goals of being successful and attractive.
I come across a lot of arbitrary nonsense on the internet like “hobbies”. Forgive me, but I cannot will myself to spend time doing things that have no bearing on my long term goals.
More work, working out, or reading is not the solution, as one man can only do so much of these in a day.
Ergo, I need a book for some guidance.
Appreciate any advice, guys. Thank you.
@adam-l This is good advice. I have been wanting to build a strong social life for a while now. Thanks for the reminder
@Typo-MAGAshiv I have read NMMNG and currently reading 48 laws of power but I’ll look into when I say no as well. Thanks for the suggestions!
Can anyone recommend books on codependency?
I looked through codependent no more, but it seemed geared more towards women.
Read No More Mr Nice Guy and that was helpful for sure.
Appreciate any suggestions. Thanks!
Can anyone recommend books on codependency?
I looked through codependent no more, but it seemed geared more towards women.
Read No More Mr Nice Guy and that was helpful for sure.
Appreciate any suggestions. Thanks!
Offhand, no. However, you might want to consider visiting avoiceformen.com as they discuss topics more along the lines of psychology and sociology than we make here. You may finding books on codependency written for men.
Scroll down to the bottom right of the front page where they provide "suggested reading" in red. Click the left or right tabs next to the book covers to scroll through their selection and check out the amazon descriptions for the books. Pick the ones you think may best address the concerns you're looking to explore.
Some may be available on pirate/bittorrent sites, but offhand I couldn't say which those would be or recommend which to look for. Generally, it's a Men going there own way (MGTOW) and Men's rights advocacy (MRA) site though, so there will be many black pills with some of the sites content. Good luck to you.
Read MoreStuck in a small Indian town till April. How do I experience life here?
I’m 25. I lift, eat clean, work, read, listen to podcasts blah blah blah.. however, I need something to DO instead of just sitting around consuming information.
I want to EXPERIENCE life. Not just sit around, reading about it.
When I was in the U.S., I’d go to bars and have a good time every weekend or mid-week too. I’d learn skiing, go to the zoo, and explore other interests. Now I’m in small-ish city in India, where the bars/clubs don’t really have many (if any) hot girls and the vibe is just dull overall. It’s not fun, so after 5-6 times, I stopped going. Martial arts, sports etc. have no decent outlet here either, and to top it all off I’m stuck here for the next 2-3 months, during which even domestic travel is difficult because I am investing most of my money in my new business.
Sitting at home every evening and engaging in productivity 7/7 days a week is not very fulfilling, and I can’t keep working all day.
I want to push out of my comfort zone. Does anyone have any ideas how I can experience life in this edge-of-the-world type town?
Read MoreFor the successful entrepreneurs on here, is making money supposed to be boring and dull?
When I was lifting, eating clean to build my physique, I don’t remember it being boring.
Nor when was it boring when I was learning game (reading, cold approaching, how to think, etc.)
When I was younger and training to be a pro athlete, it wasn’t boring.
However at least 50% of the time, my work feels like I’m just going through motions.
I’m okay with doing hard work, I just want to be sure I’m on the right track because none of my previous life changing achievements were boring undertakings. For reference, I recently started a digital marketing agency, and I mostly spend my time prospecting and doing outreach to generate clients for my business.
For those of you who are majorly successful, what has your experience getting there been like?
Read More@Desaint this is actually very insightful and along the lines that I was thinking too.
It seems the more I work, the more nerdy I become.
This is quite jarring, cause on the one hand I want the ultra luxurious lifestyle but on the other hand I don’t want to become a libtard nerd like these Silicon Valley soyboys.
