Can't maintain a girl after the 1st date
Everytime I meet a new girl it's just a loop (it varies sometimes I can pull rly well sometimes not at all). We see once, max 2 times and then she's gone. I do some stuff like kissing, makeout, cuddling, but that's rly it. Can't even pull a lay since some of them aren't 1 night hoes. It's like they're taking advantage of me bcs they're bored, but wont give the final prize if u know what I mean. I don't know if it's an external problem or internal. I think it's a specific characteristic in me so they disqualify for me; it's just I don't know what's rly the source of problem. Appreciate the help!
It's a lot better to find out that the girls you're dating aren't a match on the first date, than after a decade of marriage with children like most men tend to. While you haven't provided enough information to tell if the problem is on your end, there's, or most likely both, you seem observant that I'm confident given enough time you'll figure it out.
In the meantime, consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
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