please enlighten me to the tells that are indicating to you that her boyfriend and his being present at the gym was a farce. And what improvements I could make to my approach. The advice to just keep approaching others is appreciated. I had intended not to sweat the situation because what choice do I have? To become a stalker; pining away for her unrequited love?
Thanks for the insights, I would like some more clarity and specifics though.
A woman sincere in her interest in a man will do and say whatever it takes within reason to get them and keep them. If that chick at the gym was indeed in a relationship, your story didn't suggest she was particularly invested.
@carnold03 please enlighten me to the tells that are indicating to you that her boyfriend and his being present at the gym was a farce. And what improvements I could make to my approach. The advice to just keep approaching others is appreciated. I had intended not to sweat the situation because what choice do I have? To become a stalker; pining away for her unrequited love?
Thanks for the insights, I would like some more clarity and specifics though.
well she's hot, barring she is intolerably stupid or annoying -which I don't have any indications of yet- the end goal is to hump her brains out.
Given what you've said, it doesn't strike me that she actually has a boyfriend, either that or she's not particularly invested in the relationship. There's only enough info for me to make speculation on my part there and I'm not interested enough to ask for more.
If you're just looking to build up your notch count, keep cold approaching, and engaging other chicks who've given you the green light that they're available until you find out for sure if this one is spoken for before you expend energy on her. You've no reason to concern yourself with any one chick while letting others pass you by.
@carnold03 well she's hot, barring she is intolerably stupid or annoying -which I don't have any indications of yet- the end goal is to hump her brains out.
Cold approached solid 9 maybe 10- awesome little waist, fat butt, cute face, c titties- at the gym. Interuppted her starting a set on a seated cable fly machine. Walked over towards her, and she already started pulling her ear buds before I got to her. I walked up and said hi what's your name? She answered Sydney. Well Sydney I am Savup1827 and you have awesome legs and ivwould like to get to know you better. She was thrilled at the compliment and sweetly said thank you but I have a boyfriend. To which I answered well that's cool, I just want to get get to know you better and see if we have anything in common as I Handed over my phone. She responded OK and thought for a second, and then said but he is here and I think he'll be "like what the fuck". I kinda laughed and said oh no shit, alright well have a good one and went to finish my workout.
Thoughts, critiques, and advice welcomed, thanks.
That entirely depends on what your end goal is.
Read MoreCold approached solid 9 maybe 10- awesome little waist, fat butt, cute face, c titties- at the gym. Interuppted her starting a set on a seated cable fly machine. Walked over towards her, and she already started pulling her ear buds before I got to her. I walked up and said hi what's your name? She answered Sydney. Well Sydney I am Savup1827 and you have awesome legs and ivwould like to get to know you better. She was thrilled at the compliment and sweetly said thank you but I have a boyfriend. To which I answered well that's cool, I just want to get get to know you better and see if we have anything in common as I Handed over my phone. She responded OK and thought for a second, and then said but he is here and I think he'll be "like what the fuck". I kinda laughed and said oh no shit, alright well have a good one and went to finish my workout.
Thoughts, critiques, and advice welcomed, thanks.
Read MoreRead MoreSo I am stretching and foam rolling after a workout at the gym and this SMV 11, so sexy, comes and parks her sexy ass right next to me - like so close I almost had to adjust my stretching so I didn't hit her, right at or within the standard 3-foot bubble for personal space. I finish my stretching, grab my phone turn around, and interrupt her stretching saying "excuse me, you have amazing legs and I would really like to get to know you better and see if you are as much fun as you look." In a real sweet voice, she said "thank you, but I have a boyfriend, sorry" while holding eye contact and I stood up - I was kneeling because she was on the floor- saying OK, what's your name? while sticking out my hand. She took my hand and replied " I am Cassie" and I said well Cassie I am Savup1827, Have a great day, and went to the locker room. I'd like some help, thanks.
So I am stretching and foam rolling after a workout at the gym and this SMV 11, so sexy, comes and parks her sexy ass right next to me - like so close I almost had to adjust my stretching so I didn't hit her, right at or within the standard 3-foot bubble for personal space. I finish my stretching, grab my phone turn around, and interrupt her stretching saying "excuse me, you have amazing legs and I would really like to get to know you better and see if you are as much fun as you look." In a real sweet voice, she said "thank you, but I have a boyfriend, sorry" while holding eye contact and I stood up - I was kneeling because she was on the floor- saying OK, what's your name? while sticking out my hand. She took my hand and replied " I am Cassie" and I said well Cassie I am Savup1827, Have a great day, and went to the locker room. I'd like some help, thanks.
Read More@Elvis_Fawksley Cool, thanks. Kinda why I am here seeking advice and insight.
Walked up to 8-9, awesome butt and legs, in the gym doing her reps on the leg extension and said excuse me what's your name? She replied Lacy. I said i am "Savupthundercock" you have amazing legs, she gets all giggly and I tell her that I'd like to get to know her better while handing her my phone, and tell her to give me her #. While she is entering her # in my phone she tells me she has a boyfriend. After a slight pause, while she is still entering her number I told her "that's cool, you can keep him around until you figure out you like me better" she kinda chuckles and says "right". I tell her "good meeting you have a great day", and go back to my workout. 3 exercises later she walks up to where I am at with the incline bench, waits for me to acknowledge her, I was writing in my PT Log, and tells me " you can still text me but my boyfriend is a good one, I am gonna marry him, and I am not gonna do anything to mess that up" I looked up at her and said fair enough. And she replied thanks and walked off. I went back to working out and then left for work. Later discovered that her # didn't save because this is the first number I got with this brand new phone and didn't know I had to pick a destination to save to. The Next day I get her # again, I tell her to enter her number again it's a new phone and I messed it up, she enters her name and number again while saying GG his is just for talking about working out. She hands me the phone back I say cool and get to working out. I send her a text later that night to have dinner with me at "awesome steakhouse". No response. WTF?
I still see her almost everyday at the gym, same workout schedule.
What was done well, what can be done better, and how to fix this?
Thanks.
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