@Chantfire That's a name I haven't heard in a while. Very well respected in the bodybuilding world. If memory serves correctly, he did a 500 bench press in his younger days.
@Kloi Oh gross. I would have instantly lost all arousal. I'd pass too despite the nudes. Yuck.
@deeplydisturbed Also, a high n count in some men could be a manifestation of some sort of personality disorder rather than a cause of it, whereas in others, e.g., a celebrity, it occurs simply due to circumstances-lots of opportunities from women throwing themselves at him. As women like to say "it just happened." In the latter cases, it's probably not an issue.
@deeplydisturbed I don't know that there is a good answer to that. Men and women aren't comparable in this respect in that men on average have nowhere near the number of opportunities women do. So you'd need to look at how is it that the man had such opportunities, at what age, and individualized factors. We're more complex than they are.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZXJqJJ8FAdE Band from St. Louis called Son Volt, main guy earlier with Uncle Tupelo. Good line that is applicable here: "when in doubt, move on, no need to sort it out." That's the best way to handle female problems.
@Nightingayle Keep in mind, it isn't sex that interests me here. Companionship. I've done everything there is to do in the former realm.
@Nightingayle She fixes me dinner when kid is with dad. I do not know dad or much about him. How many times? Maybe 15. Appreciate the input.
@Typo-MAGAshiv I'll add it is nice having a pretty blonde, early 30s, accompany me to things. My motivations aren't so much sexual as companionship. But still, the age and kid part are making me step back.
@Typo-MAGAshiv I know you are right on everything you said. The whole experience is kind of new. When I got divorced at age 40, dated some mid 20s. Older now, and someone daughter age is kind of different, and that's kind of the vibe too. Look, I enjoy someone fixng me dinner and treating me well. Meeting the kid was kind of a big step for me, so that's why I posted.
