How? How do you guys approach women with any kind of non-platonic intent? How do you EVER get any woman interested for ANY length of time? I physically cannot bring myself to interact with any woman. I'm 35 and have never even flirted with a woman. I don't even know what that looks like. I just want ONE woman out of multiple BILLIONS of women to be interested in me, if only for a short time, but I have no idea how to initiate even the most remote possibility of that happening. I think I'm approaching clinical levels of insanity. Sometimes I feel like the only person on Earth who has a sex drive, and the only person on Earth who can't get laid. I don't know what to do. I'm in agony all the time. Theory doesn't help. I have nothing. I'm at absolute zero.
How in the living fuck do you be a man?
Here's a ten minute video where Joshua Graham teaches you how to be a man you might find worth listening to. Also, check out this 6 minute clip of an interview with the late Steve Allen, a talk show host most well known from hosting NBC's "Tonight Show", in which he shares brief reflections on his life, growing up during the American depression, his early adult years, marriage, and his admittedly inept parentage. He voices particular frustration about how society makes sure people are well trained to be productive, but when it came to being instructed on being good wives, husbands, parents, or to simply be a good person, there were no reference points provided for him to start with. I can only pray the links provided are the beginning of many such reference points for you. If you need more, feel free to ask.
As for females, consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
Keep in mind, that the internet grants you unrestricted access to the entirety of human knowledge. The only thing limiting you is your willingness to search and scrutinize it for information that can enable you to become the man you imagine you could one day become. Best of luck to you.
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