@SwarmShawarma

I think what we're getting at is that someone needs to do the "manipulating" in the relationship, and if it's ever going to have a chance, it will have to be the man.

That said, I've seen men that unconsciously prioritize their cool over their efficiency no matter what. It gets problematic when there are children and too many needs pile up.

@adam-l I mean those breakup/s that I have had to plough through hard and they were to my knowledge normal.

I can imagine that a man getting entangled with a woman that un/consciously manipulates (+100 to chemical bonding) by a man that bonds too strong (-100 to self-control) is as bad as the stories I was reading/hearing at the time. After all I have never consider offing my self.

Sure I get where you are coming from. But a man in such a relationship is probably horribly gaslit, manipulated and self guilt tripped.

I can see where you're coming from but I thought it deserves an addendum.

@SwarmShawarma

having breakups in the past and extrapolating it x100

How do you mean that?

@adam-l I don't think I have ever lived an experience of being in BPD relationship, but having breakups in the past and extrapolating it x100, I'd think that mixing terminology might be dangerous for someone .

Although you're not explicit to compare borderlines and BPD, someone could read into it more and excuse actual BPDs.

@Kloi or just getting few cheap ugly cars, which dont even work anymore, dump it at some high tragic motorway places, put some pink ribbons in the windows, bra on a head support and book myself trip around the World

@Kloi fuck it might work,

On my way to get a wig and a mini

@Typo-MAGAshiv it will work as long as browser is switched from mobile to desktop mode

@Lone_Ranger what if the dude can't get hard unless she put the the Mask on her, she wants to feed her coz he is into her puking some colourful stuff, while throat_dong hard play...

The Film is only an excuse to footinadoorit, all chicks got Netflix.

@Kloi someone gave me quite unique food\flavour, mastiha.

They ate it with me and they could taste it profoundly and were excited that I could try it too.

I could barely say the flavour existed, sort of yeah I think its different and tasty (base food was tasty on its own), but wasn't sure was it placebo effect.

I have never ate it and never developed the taste.

@SwarmShawarma I'm lost