@Taurimpo

Once you swallow the red pill, everything starts to make sense. Mr. Tomassi, you were right.

I have been dating a woman who has put me in the friend zone for 3 months now. Every time she wanted to fight, I have ignored her many times and eventually she comes back, but by applying the LJBF she has had a small victory over me. I recognize that. Every little thing that is recounted in Rational Man about Orbiting in the Friend Zone and every process has been inexorably fulfilled, even the prediction that I would end up accepting that soft buffered rejection of LJBF. What's even weirder is that, like the great magicians, she anticipates what her move is going to be and I am almost incapable of dodging it. The same thing happens when you train boxing with a very experienced fighter who wants to teach you. he will tell you where he is going to hit and you will not be able to do anything about it. So she told me that her ex was named after me and that he was a wonderful man, but that she had decided not to have sex with him anymore. It was decided but she was still seeing him for the convenience that he was a good stylist, so she was seeing him for free. She would tell me about it and I would say "ohh, yes, I understand" since back then it was all unbridled sex on stormy summer nights. In her mind it was all right, it made sense and she was ready to do it again. Or at least that's what she thought. She has had small victories and big defeats, but we are both still in the game to this day. The key to getting out of LJBF is to just get out of there and never go back. There will be no sex and she will continue to fake affection just because of her addiction to mascuine attention. Surely it's time for a new player on the scene. For my part I walk away with an uneasy smile.

cc: @Rollo-Tomassi

Once you swallow the red pill, everything starts to make sense. Mr. Tomassi, you were right.

I have been dating a woman who has put me in the friend zone for 3 months now. Every time she wanted to fight, I have ignored her many times and eventually she comes back, but by applying the LJBF she has had a small victory over me. I recognize that. Every little thing that is recounted in Rational Man about Orbiting in the Friend Zone and every process has been inexorably fulfilled, even the prediction that I would end up accepting that soft buffered rejection of LJBF. What's even weirder is that, like the great magicians, she anticipates what her move is going to be and I am almost incapable of dodging it. The same thing happens when you train boxing with a very experienced fighter who wants to teach you. he will tell you where he is going to hit and you will not be able to do anything about it. So she told me that her ex was named after me and that he was a wonderful man, but that she had decided not to have sex with him anymore. It was decided but she was still seeing him for the convenience that he was a good stylist, so she was seeing him for free. She would tell me about it and I would say "ohh, yes, I understand" since back then it was all unbridled sex on stormy summer nights. In her mind it was all right, it made sense and she was ready to do it again. Or at least that's what she thought. She has had small victories and big defeats, but we are both still in the game to this day. The key to getting out of LJBF is to just get out of there and never go back. There will be no sex and she will continue to fake affection just because of her addiction to mascuine attention. Surely it's time for a new player on the scene. For my part I walk away with an uneasy smile.

Oh! I have so many stories that I don't know where to start. What now occupies my mind a bit is my ex-lover who has decided to put me in the friend zone. I love spending time with her, but if I do it this way, I am validating her decision, hoping that one of these nights we will get back in bed. I don't think it will happen, she will be enjoying denying me sex. So I will have to put her in the freezer again or forget her for good. She likes to argue and if I get angry or offended I'm letting her know I don't understand the game. That's why I'm still in doubt. She is single, has a good body and a great predisposition for sex, beautiful skin and good perfume. That makes me lose my objectivity. In the meantime I have brief, sub-par sexual moments with another friend of mine who is neither as graceful nor as good in bed. Mmh the good is the enemy of the best. I'm going to have to get over myself and get myself a prettier, younger and more sexually predisposed partner.