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How to deal with best friend becoming a total bitch
New here. Long time lurker. This isn’t really about me. I’m not 100% using the red pill but I’m satisfied where I’m at and I’m still learning everyday.
I’ll make this as short as possible. I’m divorced. I’ll never get married again. I get laid frequently and don’t need or want a relationship. I value my freedom above any relationship.
I have a friend who is aware of the red pill and constantly watches red pill content. The guy never takes any action and I told him repeatedly if you don’t act you’re just fantasizing.
He got married to a woman from another country who has two kids, now they have a baby, the guy gets hit in the face and constantly broken up with, kicked out the house, she controls him to the point where he can’t have any friends or do anything on his own or without her “approval.” She just the most immature woman I’ve ever seen. The guy will bitch to me 24/7 about her. At first I listened and gave him my advice. Work on yourself. If she hits you she doesn’t respect you. You need to get away from her and start lifting and playing the field. Focus on your career and if the problem is you weren’t satisfied with the quality of women you were getting then put in the work.
Now, they even have a joint bank account and he doesn’t even have his own anymore. She’s like a 6/7 on a good day. I hardly talk to the guy cuz he’ll just blow up my phone bitching about her and never acts.
The guy used to pull 6s all day sometimes 5s/4s but he was okay with that and didn’t care to get in a relationship. How do you deal with seeing your best friend just become a total bitch?
Read MoreMaybe the most you can do is to selectively dump him. I.e. dump that part of him that has to do with his wife. Be there for him otherwise, he's your friend, try to have fun the way you used to back in the old days. And be there for him once his "family" comes crushing down. Or don't, it's your choice.
But since you've tried to talk some sense into him and found a wall, stop being his go-to place for bitching.