@Mate1212

"you're only goal is sex as a man”.

Men WANT more than sex, but women seem to be incapable of anything but sex in the long run. So if you get to that point, and she hands you a dead bedroom, she is nothing but a HUGE pile of paid, difficulty, stress, annoyance, and threat of destitution.

Hence @Typo-MAGAshiv ’s comment.

I do agree in the dating phase. If I don't smash after the 3 date I'm gone.

Fair enough. I don’t take such a strict stance. I have a half dozen women dangling around at any given time. Some will and some won’t have sex with me. The ones who won’t I mostly ignore. I refuse to be, or be seen as, an orbiter. It’s creepy and weird.

But I can still wait a more than a few dates to get laid because I am patient and have other options. On tap, 7x24

But assuming the only goal of man is to smash. Why can't I accept beeing a cuckold?

Woah dude. That’s a huge leap. But I’ll tell you why.

Because sooner or later you will feel disgust. Disgust for her, the participants, and more importantly yourself. Think very carefully about this. If you have this as a kink or fetish, I would NOT indulge it. Fantasies are often best left in fantasy land.

Because a cuckold would get some.

That’s a bold assumption. I bet this is less true than you think it is. And while I have never been in such a relationship, I am going to bet that any women in this shoes do not lust after their main man. He is for paying bills, so he will get pretend or duty sex once in a while.

In that case, why not just stay single?

But his wife also gets smashed by other dudes.

That’s an open relationship with extra steps. Plus it sounds one-sided.

I would NOT like such a scenario.

Still true men refuse to be a cuckold.

Most would agree. It cannot possibly feel good in the long run. Relationships are a challenge under the best of circumstances. Why add this mess to the mix?

Men don't want to rais kids from another men.

Most men. Correct. But there are way too many stepdads out there. I was raised by one, and I was one (first wife, ended real quick).

10/10 Would NOT recommend.

The doing to the stage of kids is sex. So I guess the true goal of man is to get as many woman pregnant as possible and only invest his resources in these kids.

Biologically true. But civilization has tried since the beginning of time to regulate this. Look around at the tribal cultures around the world that purse r-selection strategies. Women cheat and sneak around, men fuck who they can, and the women collectively raise the kids. No one knows whose father is whose, but it doesn’t matter because inheritance is not a factor.

(See r/K selection theory - en.wikipedia.org/wiki/R/K_selection_theory

If you want to live a tribal, primitive life, there are plenty of places like this across Africa and Asia. In fact, large swaths of South America are like this.

Entire civilizations are made or broken on how they address this single concept. What man wants to fight or die for a society in which you don’t even know if your child is really yours?

In some countries, women’s cheating is so rampant and pervasive, they have made paternity/DNA testing is illegal (hello France). Who the hell wants to protect such a place as a man? Sure, the military is fun and all, but my fighting spirit just ain’t gonna win the next war.

Pick your poison and proceed accordingly.

Good luck