@Victor

I don't even go out on dates expecting to find a soul mate anymore.

I'd wager it's continuing dates with woman that are into me that I don't find a personal connection with that burn me out.

I equate it to basically a ONS bar lay but we repeat the action. There's no chemistry, at least from my perspective.

While I don't believe in soul mates, I think it's undeniable there are women out there I just click/connect with from the initial hello. Those girls for me are 1 in 100. Maybe 1 in 1000.

That's how it feels with this girl and I'd rather take her out once or twice a week versus seeing her every other week and filling in the gaps with women I'm simply fucking.

If I get a solid six months out of her, I'd be happy to have spent the time with her over other frivolous fucks. If it blows up in my face, pussy isn't hard to find.

@Kloi gonna interject here and say word.

I've been single for a while now with a few flings here and there, but honestly im just chilling working on my career. I feel like I get stimulation from just my interactions with people.

Are you sure it's the dates that are burning you out? Cause I thought my work was burning me out, but in reality, I was spending almost 1 grand on this mobile massive only war game every month. The micro transactions and shit really get ya. Worse than slot machines. I deleted the game, sunk cost whatever, never again. Now I feel way better, like a rock had been lifted off my shoulders.

Point is, why are you letting yourself be burnt out from dates brother. It's supposed to be a cherry on top, you should probably take a break from dates and that if it's burning you out. I don't believe you would be burnt out from dates, it's probably something else. Dates are meant to be fun.

I don't even go out on dates expecting to find a soul mate anymore. I just see as it as some fun with a temporary human companion and enjoy the experience in the moment and just live and shit know what im sayin

@Kloi it feels fuckin great being in the top 15%. It feels better even having that personality and being able to talk to anyone you want and not give a fk.

Also, by not assuming the girl wants you, it lets you act in a way where you dgaf. You're not assuming she doesn't want you, but you're not assuming she wants you either.

It's a pitfall noobies fall into. They think every girl wants to fk them when reality they are just acting creepy.

The 'assume attraction term' is doesn't make sense if you think about it. By assuming she wants to fuck you, you would no longer be outcome independant especially if she doesn't actually want to fuck you.

You don't even need to be outgoing. You just need to build some levevl of rapport before assuming anything.

Too many guys wrongly assume a girl wants to fk them as if the thought had come to them in a day dream. Because these guys haven't actually built much rapport which means the girl isn't attracted yet.

So yeah, assume attraction can be very misleading and its probably why so many girls fail, even the novices