@ZCH8

Girlfriend of over a month says she wants to wait until we have sex.

I'm 24 yo this is my first GF, she is 19. I've been reading RP content for a couple years.

To give you an Idea of her, she's on the less attractive side, maybe a 4. Simple kind of girl, family oriented. Wants a husband and kids. Doesn't wear make-up and wears tie-dye shirts. Definitely not sleeping around.

I made her my GF way too early and before we even had sex which is my fault. I want her to want me the way where waiting isn't an option, like I'm so sexy she can't resist me. We've made out a little bit, usually lasts around 15 seconds. When I try to go into her panties she says "no".

I've read "Iron Rule of Tomassi #3 Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait"

So I'm just wondering if this case is any different?

She's either insecure and inexperienced and actually needs to wait or she's not interested in fucking.

Thanks for reading.

Being that she's 19 and by your own admission not very good looking, it's not unreasonable to assume that she might be inexperienced, insecure, or both, but that would be deflecting. It reads like while she clearly isn't sexually aroused by you, she's otherwise comfortable around you. That's not something you're liking and it's left you overthinking this situation. However, the problem isn't that she doesn't want to have sex with you yet, but that rather as you are right now you're not the sort of man with whom she wants to have sex with at all.

Unfortunately, outside of dumping this chick, there's no quick fix solution to this problem. The RP stuff you've read thus far clearly clicks with you on some level, but you lack the real world practical experience needed to contrast it against to refine and improve how you deal with women. You need to continue working out, on yourself, and gaining more experience to figure out what sort of man you want to be and engage females who're aroused by that sort of man. Until you do this, the women you date won't be particularly striking, or aroused by you.

While you're figuring that out, consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.