ok gents what could I have done different here wit this girl?
I will try to keep it short.
Met this cute girl at a group trip we took. All of us started as strangers who met on day 1 and by end of a week we were all friends and just good vibes overall. This girl became too close with me. But she had said she had a boyfriend back home. I thought to myself okay I have no chance here and didnt pay much attention too her at all for last two days of the trip.
Lo & behold. It had the opposite effect on her. I think she also saw other women respond to me positively and were taking interest. Last day she held my hands, hugged me for a minute in front of everyone and didnt let go for a while before I left to catch my flight back home.
At one point she even grabbed my feet to massage them when I just casually said my feet hurt and if someone could help me stretch my legs. She just grabbed and started massaging. At one point I did catch her crying outside the hotel lobby where we were staying and I think she was on the phone with her boyfriend because I saw her phone getting calls back to back from a dude.
Anyway I had just boarded my flight and she messaged saying how much she is going to miss me and yada yada about making trips in the future. Now its been a couple of days since this incident and I havent heard back from her. Did she just go cold because she is with her boyfriend now? I know I should have struck when the iron was hot.
We texted for two days back and forth. Nothing too exciting from her side and she hasnt replied to my last text since 4 days now. I know the protocol is to next her and move on. I will follow on that yes, but I am curious what I could have done better so that when some other such situation arises I can be ready.
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Can someone explain why do married women cheat?
Recent case of Baltasar Ebang Engonga having sex with hundreds of married women and videotaping them with THEIR consent has me questioning everything I thought I knew about the RedPill.
He even had sex with the wives and daughters of prominent state officials. How can this happen? And why would married women want to record themselves while cheating?
Not everything is as it seems, but it's been interesting observing how so many countries are engaging internal corruption as they make a bid to join BRICS.
Fuck here we go again. Little background about me. I am an Indian dude who grew up in the most urban and upper middle class neighbourhood in the capital city of India- New Delhi. This is critical for what is to come. Bear with me.
I grew in a time prior to dating apps. Prior to Instagram. It was a wonderful time to be alive. My elementary dating life started with quite some success. Same with high school and college. I was dating cuties all the time and had no trouble pulling chicks in "India". But since 2015 I have observed a drastic change. All the cuties and hotties are only seen with chads nowadays. I got on apps two years ago. Never had any success. I am hearing stories from younger dudes how everyone is cheating nowadays even in marriages. I have several stories to back this up. Recently me and a buddy I met in a hostel I was staying at in a beach town decided to hit up a bar. He started talking to this girl who was like a 3/10 and anyway he wanted to bang so I played wingman. She tells us how she is happily married but being red pilled, I laughed internally becuase she literally knew every dude in the bar by name. Atleast 5 dudes said hi to her at the bar. She said she knew the owner too. And lo-and-behold I saw a bumble notification pop up on her phone. My buddy thinking she was happily married naively caved in and went into nice guy mode. She lost interest and moved onto something else that tingled her that night.
Long story short- India is fucked if you are an average Indian male. What we are left with is arranged marrianges but even there I have heard of horror stories where woman keep going back to the chads from their past and milking their husbands dry in courts. Earlier before all this online bs, if you really remember and think, a woman in a neighbourhood had limited options but it worked out for everyone involved. She could meet a guy at work, neighbourhood get-togethers or whatever, mutual friends, school etc and you could game her even if you were not a literal greek god. Why? Because she didnt have a whole city of millions of options to choose from. I have given up and started to look at SEA for better and more authentic dating life. I have lived in the US and Canada. I wont even get started with the dating situation there but it was important to give a ground report to guys (especially Indian guys raised in the west) about the plague that has reached India too. Gone are the days where you could come home to snap up a good wife. Now she has taken more dicks in her mouth than the number of times you have even talked to a woman IRL. If you think I joke, I challenge you to visit Bangalore, Mumbai, New Delhi and see for yourself.
This reads as a rather grim summary of a situation, almost bleak. So, what's your plan going forward given the goals you have in mind for yourself?
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