10mo ago Ask TRP
I’m a 24 yo virgin. Got head a long time ago. I’m tall, and get told I’m good looking quite a bit. I have pretty good game, very dominant and masculine style. The only problem is my lack of physical and sexual experience makes me nervous to actually have sex with a girl. I feel this will expose my “alpha” personality in the first place. I’ve had a couple girls almost beg me to fuck them in my life, and I didn’t because I was scared to expose sexual inexperience. Any advice on how to get over this, or more specifically ways to have decent sex for my first time?
I’m a 24 yo virgin. Got head a long time ago. I’m tall, and get told I’m good looking quite a bit. I have pretty good game, very dominant and masculine style. The only problem is my lack of physical and sexual experience makes me nervous to actually have sex with a girl. I feel this will expose my “alpha” personality in the first place. I’ve had a couple girls almost beg me to fuck them in my life, and I didn’t because I was scared to expose sexual inexperience. Any advice on how to get over this, or more specifically ways to have decent sex for my first time?
If you want to be more comfortable with women sexually, you need to become more comfortable interacting with them socially and learn to not fear rejection. That's not to say you shouldn't be disappointed when it happens, only that you accept it will happen at anytime and that you shouldn't really care when any one girl you barely know rejects you. There's plenty of fish in the sea and make a habit of keeping condoms on standby.
Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library.
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@AndrewTatesPancreas I do believe this to be my issue. I feel like my new personality that girls tend to like is fake, becuase of no sexual experience to back it up. I’m pretty well known, and so most girls I know some way or another in my area, so don’t want the world to spread. Might just have to fuck a tinder 6 tbh.
10mo ago Ask TRP
@Goingthedistance this was the best rp advice I’ve ever received, thank you. You sound very similar to me. My whole life I’ve been practically called good looking. I’ve had girls pretty much beg me to get with them, but I perceived myself so low and ugly that I wouldn’t se it for what it actually was. Over the past year or two my frame has slowly been changing, and now I’m realizing all these doors I have that are open. Although I am scared to be embarrassed from bad sex, your advices totally changed my perspective. I never thought about the girl thinking it was her fault or problem that I didn’t fuck her good. Especially if I continue to be a tall decent looking guy with good frame. Thank you for this. Very much appreciated