It’s simply not either or.
Agreed. But I said nothing of the sort.
You may have misunderstood what i was talking about, because you did.
The guy asked why on earth anyone would want a LTR if they’re not looking to marry or have kids.
You said men crave intimacy and are wired to want it, and that the red pill is clueless about this.
Which because the latter statement clearly isnt true, is a misrepresentation, even if you didnt mean it that way.
Men craving intimacy - being the romantic sex as it’s often said - and how to use TRP to get those needs met in an effective way, is foundational material here.
The Red Pill^tm" is a collection of ideas, principles, models, and observations about the reality of intersexual relationship dynamics from a male perspective.
In other words, a toolbox. We’re not talking about carpentry here
Read More@Jocbro tbf i havent said anything of the sort. My view is your posts since a long time reek of anger phase and bitterness, symptoms of not having swallowed TRP.
The cornerstone of TRP is not just understanding reality, but accepting reality.
Instead of accepting reality and enjoying what you have, you in some sense feel insulted over investing in a woman you like, i guess because so and so implied you should because of X metric.
You’re really operating from some faux red pill persons mental point of origin, instead of as your own.
Personally i wouldnt bat an eye at having an LTR with a 20 bc chick if she was fucking awesome. I really dont think most guys who’ve experienced a lot of women would either.
Because worrying about that means you havent managed your expectations and set boundaries, i.e not really taken TRP.
Read More@deeplydisturbed this is almost as much of a misrepresentation of TRP as the other stance is.
It’s simply not either or. You have guys recommending certain things. Rollo too as your example, has said he regretted writing the iron rules the way he did. Because of them being so prescriptive.
It’s a toolbox. Both using or refraining from using certain tools has consequences, which are mostly well decribed.
what’s the alternative if I want a woman around but don’t wanna spin plates?
You take what you get, deal with it and stfu about it i guess
@Jocbro super vague question. Depends on to what extent. The real question is: why would you?
It involves more work for less.
a day later I texted her that I don’t find chemistry between us and I want to end this texting and all.
For the future, you dont have to be overt like this. You can just fade them out by rarely replying. Turn off notifications on their messages or something. Less drama.
status, money and game, the latter is the most important and everything else can be mitigated.
Of course, and game is status on its own.
I'm not saying it's impossible since I did get laid being a fat bastard, but holy shit it's just twice as hard
No shit!
I know how to speak with girls and how to escalate and get them into my bed.
But if you’re currently not, this is either FALSE i.e your game aint actually that good and you were riding on your looks more than you thought (like most of us). OR you’re not actually trying, i.e low volume.
I may be funny, witty and confident, they won't consider fucking me because they csnt even see my jawline.
All cope and rationalising. Back to the drawing board. Seriously
do you find fat girls attractive?
Irrelevant, as men and women operate with completely different metrics of attraction
This is just bitching and whining bro, I just gotta lose weight and then
Awesome. Go get it
Read More@cuztrpp nice anecdote, and while it’s usually the case that fatties suck in the dating market (who would have thought), what you’re claiming is observably wrong.
What you and so many others dont understand is that you get confirmation bias, from your experiences while getting leaner.
Because what’s also true, is that fat fucks, almost as a fucking rule, have absolutely ZERO GAME.
You were a fatty sure, but you were also a young, virgin AFC, who had his confidence shook by every undermining look of disgust and every negative comment that came your way.
If on the other hand you actually had rock solid game, you would SLAY. Even as a fat fuck.
This is the truth and half the fucking manosphere seems to have forgotten this as a result of sitting nose deep in a screen all the time, instead of going out and actually looking at social dynamics at play.
Im not saying you shouldnt get in shape and all that jazz; you should, FOR YOUR OWN SAKE. It makes things easier, and that is all.
Read More@Delaney theirs. Each and every woman on the app had that prompt and answer
