Story time: "2 gym bros, one girl". One of the girl's that are mostly with my gym bro group lives 2 blocks away from my home. When i go with the truck and i stay late, i usually drop her on her house (is not a nice zone at night). One of my closest gym bro is also a male stripper. When we where going out, my gym bro ask her if she wants a ride home (he has a cheap, 110cc motocycle). Hearing that, i just went off and started walking but she said "No thanks, disabledtrp will take me home" i turn around at my gym bro saying "Hey, wait for her!". I just shrugged and said "If she doesn't follow me, is not my problem". She quickly came running to my side and walked a block to my truck. In the 2km we have until our houses, we talk and now i realize that she was going out with my gym bro. That he even asked her if she liked male strippers. I was stunned. I always respected my gym bro a lot, he is a night person, on parties and etc.. is a fucking stripper for fuck sake, jacked as fuck. on the time frame we go to the gym, he and i are the best physique there. i couldn't believe, not only he acted as beta as he could with her (is a 6 at best for fuck sake) but also, my IDGAF attitude actually made him embarrased in front everyone why he choose me on top of him. God, now probably he thinks i'm chasing her or interested and is fucked up why i don't give a fuck. i don't want to date inside the gym. the gym is my temple, my only safe zone. where i can be happy and free. I don't care if you are a 10, if you go to my gym, you are invisible to me. God dammit, not even the person you think, that has so many years with women and on life, has the balls to apply TRP principles. Loneliness is a bitch.

@disabledtrp

"Ok, i'll bite, show me a pic". It was a 4 at best (with make up), post wall, slightly obese.

Not saying your taste and preferences are somehow wrong but quick story time. Long ago I met a woman on Myspace and we shared some friendly banter and eventually agreed to go on a date. I (very tall and lean) knew she was relatively short and plump, but my first impression when I saw her stand up in that restaurant lobby was, "Are you going to like continue to stand up?" She was seriously 5'0 and physically a very implausible match for me. However we really hit it off well personality wise, and our relationship and sexual needs at the time complemented perfectly. She ended up becoming my longest running and favorite plate of all time, and this specific relationship was instrumental in quashing some of my blue pill beliefs and revealing red pill truths long before Reddit existed. We'd still be hooking up a couple times a week today but when her daughter grew up and moved out, she ended up accepting a proposal from one of her beta bucks guys and now lives in a nice condo with him. At this point we exchange a friendly text greeting every New Years but nothing more.

I could have rejected her on first sight on principles that my TRP brothers would approve of, but it would have been a big net loss even beyond the sex itself. There were a lot, and I mean a lot-a lot of "better match on paper" women I dated across the arc of my love life who were less satisfying overall than this particular plate.

Is infantilization of society a thing? Women < 30yr behave like 10/12yr old (drinking, videogames, boring or empty conversation subjects, continuously sleeping or childish behavior in general to escape reality and accountability). As i have a chad / Tyrone kind of look & presence, but with one downside: i don't do alcohol, drugs nor party (i like to travel, going to lunch / dinner to new places, sports. Usually, daylight activities). So i believe that i look "boring" or "too old" for younger females (18-26yr old) but a player for older women that looks for a provider ( > 30yr). i usually have more chances with that spot between 26yr and 30yr but the reduced target available make it hard and the chances to connect with a young girl, even if i can have any kind of conversation, they are only looking for my attention and validation online. I'm right or wrong on my view on the subject? opinions?