What the fuck do I do? I'm 30.
I don't want to fuck 30 year old women. The world is different than it was a few years ago. It seems like young women are never at bars and it isn't a good place to meet them. Is it only possible to meet 18-24 year olds on Tinder or Insta now? I don't know what's going on, I spent the last five years working on some important shit to me thinking that I would just have a higher smv at 30 and life would be easier but it seems like I just have a lower smv from getting older and I don't know how to meet "young ladies" anymore besides dating apps. I'm not doing dating apps right now because there is no point in a town of 10k. The women aren't on there. I feel like guys in their early twenties and shit are very defensive against older men going after younger women and don't want to let you into their social circles so please tell me, what the fuck am I supposed to do? I don't feel comfortable approaching hot girls in public because I can't tell the diference between a 21 year old and a 16 year old. Anybody care to explain? Do I absolutely have to go digital now? What are you doing? Life was easier when I was a 21 year old loser! It feels like I was sold a lie by the red pill. How do I fix this? I don't know how to be 30. Everyone in my small town my age either settled down and got married or got into drugs, I cut off all my old friends because they were going nowhere and toxic people.I'm afraid I'll move to a city and still be isolated. This fucking sucks bros.
Then maybe it's time to spend sometime visiting the nearby cities to find one with a pace and quality of life you think you'd enjoy. Beyond that, consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
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