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Should I focus on money, girls, or studies?
Discovered the red pill about a month ago, I've been going to the gym for about 2 years now and it's become a non negotiable in my week. I'm just confused as to what I should focus on.
I'm in my final year of high school, I have a job making me $400-$500 per week, I have an above average physique and my grades are not the greatest. I have a side hustle pressure washing pavement, windows and garbage bins that I was thinking about scaling.
I still feel like I need to experience being young while I can, and I don't find it difficult to get invited to parties.
Let me know your guys opinions.
O Should I focus on money, girls, or studies?
Discovered the red pill about a month ago, I've been going to the gym for about 2 years now and it's become a non negotiable in my week. I'm just confused as to what I should focus on.
I'm in my final year of high school, I have a job making me $400-$500 per week, I have an above average physique and my grades are not the greatest. I have a side hustle pressure washing pavement, windows and garbage bins that I was thinking about scaling.
I still feel like I need to experience being young while I can, and I don't find it difficult to get invited to parties.
Let me know your guys opinions.
When you get a chance, sit down, and make a list of the things that you want to do with your life that you've put off for whatever reasons. Don't worry about how silly or stupid the idea might be, just write those ideas out. On another sheet of paper, re-write the things from that list in order of simplest to most complex. Yes, I know that you've already written a list, but just re-write them in that order, it doesn't need to be perfect. Once you've done that, start working out how to accomplish the things you're written down on that list. If you encounter any problems and no one you know can suggest reference materials, swing by again and let us know. With how you've otherwise described your life, you've clearly got a good head on your shoulders and I honestly think we'd probably give you the wrong information just to appease our own egos, except in one regard.
That, being women. Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
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