@WarnerBro

I don't know if you are familiar with Alana's Involuntary Celibacy Project which has been mostly credited with coining the modern use of Incel.

From the Wikipedia article;

Who Qualified as Incel?

Someone who has never dated, or not dated in a long time, but would like to, is involuntarily celibate Someone going through long periods of not dating anyone Those who, for one reason or another, have difficulty meeting someone for a sexual relationship Those with no or very little experience with sex and dating Someone with experience of dating and sex, but not for many years Those who are in a relationship, but for one reason or another their partner desires sex very infrequently or not at all Those who are sexually inactive while wishing to be otherwise Those with an inability to form relationships Those married, but the "spark" is gone: little or no sex, little or no love. Those who have intense difficulty dating, searching for a mate Those who just want to get laid, and can't for some reason Your Geek Code contains r--, r---, !r, r*, z, z--, !z, or !z+ Not being able to express oneself sexually due to circumstances that are difficult to control (this would include those who are socially phobic, shy, disfigured, homosexual, sexually disfunctional, marcels, the handicapped, prisoners, mentally ill, pedophiles or whatever else...the list is infinite)[3]

As can be seen by this list, it's not just confined to Dorito dust-covered Males that nest in their Parent's basement.

Update on my Friend

Was over to visit with him a few times in the past month while we spent time with our Daughter/Granddaughter.

He is living moment to moment. On the upside, his last lab results showed a downward trend in the markers for his latest Cancer and he is waiting on results for the latest CT scan. Cautiously optimistic on that.

His house sold for above asking on the first day it was shown. He has to be out by the end of September and should have enough to find something small, comfortable and more importantly, not in need of renovation. He is not up to the task of doing repairs and maintenance.

Downside is trying to figure out what to do with all of the stuff accumulated between the two of them over the years they've been together.

He is a car guy with extra parts he doesn't have the time to deal with. Some of it is near unobtanium and he's very afraid it will just end up in a dumpster bin. While I was there one particular day, he had someone come over to pick up two complete G-body dashes that he had taken the time to pull from donors at a Wrecker Lot. He had taken the time to get the heater controls freed up so they were like new.

A 69 C-10 with a 350 Stroker went to a Neighbour's Son for $3,000 (should have been double that amount). He has a 75 Torino Elite that is ready to drive and a 79 LTD with a 473 that was torn apart and only needs the interior installed. He hasn't even fired up the engine since the build was completed. I introduced him to one of my Son's friends, who has automotive/heavy-duty experience, that may be able to help him pare down the pile of good spare parts.

His late Wife bought a lot of stuff... Expensive things still in boxes were stuffed into a bedroom. There wasn't anywhere in the house that had not been touched by her. I'm sure a good deal of it will go to the dump.

Some of it triggers great emotion in him. He told me about some of the things she had done, or failed to do. The time the lights went out because she didn't pay the electric bill, or the $4,000 gas bill because she turned up the thermostat in the garage to maximum, forgot about it and he found out a week later. A small lottery win was a shopping spree.

I'm glad to have been able to help him out in small ways, such as taking down and boxing two custom neon signs, cleaning out some storage space he's unable to get into because he has the two bags hanging from his mid section.

We'll be going back in another 3-4 weeks, and I'll spend some more time, even if it's just to listen.