@wegojim

How should I proceed with an argumentative girl?

I've been talking to a girl (from an app) who's generally got a bit of a stick up her ass. I have not met her in person yet. A few days ago I suggested we get together today, which she agreed with but tried to make the plans for us. She just said "meet me at x, we can get dinner". I basically said "Dinner is a terrible idea I'm not doing that." She got butthurt about this and immediately launched into "you just want to hook up with me, what's wrong with dinner? You come up with something better then, etc". I told her I'd come up with something and I'd talk to her later. My current idea is telling her to meet me at x for drinks and some food, then splitting the bill and saying see ya later.

She goes out of her way to talk to me and seems to want my attention, but when she does, she acts like she's got a cock between her legs. I get the sense that she's trying really hard to sus out if I'm "a player", or essentially what my intentions are. I've been extremely vague in this regard and I only really communicate that I'm interested in her, and that I want to meet with her. I've never met a girl who refuses to be feminine and tries to dictate everything (or challenges everything I say) before I have even met her.

On one hand it seems like pretty blatant next, on the other hand I think maybe I could learn a lot by figuring out how to maneuver this. My desire to bed this chick is probably like a 6/10. Assuming you didn't next in this situation, how would you proceed?

edit: I shouldn't have even asked about this because it's a stupid question.

While she may like the attention she gets from you and other guys, if she's clearly communicated that she's not looking to hookup, maybe you should spend that energy on those who are. Move on and consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.