Going out and getting zero return is soul-sucking, and you'll burn out pretty darn quickly.
It's time to learn that your amusement is your job.
Go out, enjoy yourself, and forget the value you wish you received from others. Instead, learn how to be entertained. Do what interests you, anything that strikes your fancy.
At a club and you're not feeling it? Why power through the slog when you're not getting any value in return?
Maybe it's time to change your approach to your night life. If you're not enjoying what you're doing, why do it?
This goes for hobbies, friends, and every part of your life.