Reasons To Charm Men Who are not Your SO

• Your SO enjoys having a woman coveted by others. If that is not the case, what are you still doing reading this? But, if that is the case, charming other men makes you look like a “catch”, and it makes your SO look like a catch for having your affections. A woman who is feminine and well-liked reflects well on a man, and elevates his status.
• It is good practice. Unlike the men in TRP, we don't have the luxury of practicing relationship making techniques on many men. Woman have to practice a relationship with one man at a time, and in an ideal scenario, make it last as long as possible. However, we can practice femininity by using it in short encounters with men. This will refine your reflexes so that you will be more prone to use your femininity skills in your interactions with your SO.
• While men's power is strength, women's power is social. If men like you, they will be more likely to have your back. They will figuratively and even literally protect you if the situation calls for it.
• It's ego flattering. Sometimes the motivation can be as simple as “it's nice to be liked”.

How To Charm Other Men Who are not Your SO

This amounts to basic feminine techniques.

• Smile and acknowledge men.
• Participate in the group activity with enthusiasm, whether it's charades or yard work.
• Take an interest in what they have to say, and who they are.
• If they offer complements, politely thank them.
• If they offer you help, graciously accept, whether you actually need it or not.
• Laugh at their jokes and be a genuinely fun person to be around.
• Be the girl who brings delicious goodies to events and is kind to others.
• Also, look pretty. Men want to like a pretty woman. If you're a pretty woman, all you have to is be nice and it will simply open the door for them to allow themselves to like you.

Avoiding The Hazards of Men Liking You Too Much

There is a potential hazard of making men like you to the extent that they want to become your orbiter or even your partner. The best way I have found to avoid this is to nip it in the bud before it happens. This can be easily done by openly obsessing over your SO in public. If he's present, physically fawn over him (PDA appropriately). If he's not there, talk about him A LOT. This is to give the impression that not only are you taken, there isn't even a sliver of hope of him “stealing” you. When done right, men will no longer actually covet you. They will find themselves enjoying your company (giving you all the benefits listed above), but instead of wanting specifically you, they will just find themselves wishing for a girl like you.

Another thing that you can do is avoid unnecessary physical contact. I'm even extremely discerning of who I allow to get a hug. Those who are at all likely to covet me do not get hugs, ever. Also be suspicious of gifts that you receive and who they are from. It is a judgment call on your part whether or not accepting a gift will send the wrong message.

Lastly, if men make inappropriate advances be forthcoming and direct about pushing them away. If you are subject of a man who refuses to take a hike, then there will be other men around who will force him to take a hike on your behalf. I have very seldom been in an uncomfortable situation, but for every one man who was making me uncomfortable, there were 5 men around who wanted to make sure I was protected.