If you're a reader of this site, then you know that screening is my bread and butter, but what is my overall vibe? Better yet, what vibe should you cultivate? In this blog post, i'll answer both of those questions
I'm a chill ass dude. The only time I get hyped up is when i'm hanging with my friend molly and/or drinking some coke - if you know what I mean.
Eye contact and Other Body Language - When i'm in the field, i'm constantly on the lookout for something that catches my eye. If I see a female that I like then i'm approaching and screening hard. If I see a hottie that looks at me too then i'm on her and screening. The only time IOD I really look for is if she looks terrified when I see here - i'm not interested in catching a case of any kind.
Inner Game and how I feel on the inside - The only two things on my mind when i'm approaching someone is 'screen screen screen' and logistics. This leads to very banal conversations with lots of touching and/or sexually charged conversations with lots of touching. Either one is fine as long as you're screening the whole time. On the inside, I am sensing her vibe towards me as well as feeling how turned on she makes me. In the beginning, you most likely will feel very nervous and lots of anxious high energy in yourself. The inner calm and ability to sense her vibe comes with time and the blowing out of many sets. Keep screening!
Rejections and how to handle them - Screening women will lead you to saving lots of time, but you'll get rejected a lot more. When I say rejected, I mean that she will run away and/or terminate the interaction. Let her go. Do no give chase. The set is yours to cultivate and hers to terminate. The only way you should be getting rejected is if you push too hard - but there's no such thing as pushing too hard. (I'll post on this later.)
When I get rejected, I accept her denial and continue screening. For instance if she says 'wow you're really touchy. You should stop.' I'll agree as I continue to screen and escalate. Eventually she'll leave or I'll turn up the heat on her.
If you're out there screening, it's important that you quiet your inner insecurities so you're able to focus on the task at hand - screening.
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