Let's explore the meaning of this term, the benefits that can be derived from it, the underlying mindset, and how to actually utilize it.
Dread Game is basically NEXTing a girl when she does shit that you don't like or can't tolerate.
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The Benefits
- Preservation of self respect - eliminating things that aren't worth your time or effort will make you feel good about yourself
- Increased knowledge about yourself - After kicking so many chicks out, you will begin to realize what you don't like and won't tolerate
- No Bullshit Demeanor - Coming from a place of "Act right or get the fuck out"
- Lots of Sex - Handling your shit and not tolerating things you don't like will make you much more attractive than the average supplicating male
The Underlying Mindset and Why it Works
Dread Game is very effective. Want to know why? In layman's terms, because you're standing up for yourself. In redpill's terms, because you're showing that you don't need her ie abundance mentality. In a woman's mind, because she isn't good enough.
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Why dread game works |
From a young age, women are showered with praise. Rarely is it because anything other than them having a pussy or looking good. This leads to a person that lives for the approval of others ==> This person is a reflection of the judgement of others ==> This person has no image of themselves ==> Which means that they're forever at a disadvantage mentally. This is the mind map of a typical pretty girl. In reality, they're forever at a disadvantage mentally.
Their pathetic mindset isn't your problem.
From a dude's perspective, she's simply quelling what could be a good time... So he kicks her out - but why? What's going on under the hood? She's hit his breaking point
Dread game isn't some form of manipulation, although it can be used in that way. It's basically saying that she's no longer good enough so he doesn't want her around. Traditionally this is done via nonverbals ie ignoring her texts and calls until you're no longer annoyed.
Dread game is letting her go because you don't want to tolerate her short-comings. It's not pretending to not be interested in order to get some pussy or have her apologize. That's a form of manipulation and is pretty transparent if the girl in question has even a modicum of intelligence. If she's of quality then she won't engage you in a manipulation battle.
Moving on...
How to effectively utilize dread game. It's a natural thing. As a man, you're born with innate knowledge of yourself. When someone wrongs you, you know exactly what they could do to right the situation. For instance, if a chick comes over to my house and is a slob. I'll let her know that she's a slob and watch to see what she does next. At this point i'm expecting an apology and for her to stop fucking up my house. If my predetermined terms are met, she gets to continue staying around me. If i receive anything other than a sincere apology and effort to stop being a slob then she will no longer be welcome at my spot.
It's very important that you don't change your predetermined terms in order to help her get back in your good graces. Let her work for it. If she's unwilling to work, let the relationship die. You don't need that negativity in your life.
In conclusion, dread game is kicking a girl out of your life that isn't good enough and not allowing her to come back until she meets your predetermined terms. This is the cleanest way to utilize dread game. There is no manipulation involved in this method.
Stay Icy
Tip frontEndDev for their post.