Every so often, I read a Red Pill post that goes something like: “I’ve been a total asshole toward women and treated them like utter shit for the past six months, and like magic, they can’t seem to stop fucking me. But I feel really bad about treating them this way, and empty about all the meaningless sex without more of a connection. How do you guys get over this feeling?”
The peanut gallery then launches into the typical party line explanations: It’s okay to do this because men have an inborn drive – an obligation really – to maximize their sexual outcome, and there’s nothing wrong with doing what works. And besides, this is what women are inherently attracted to, for strong evolutionary/biological reasons, so we’re just giving women what they want. Society’s just taught you wrong. So it’s okay to treat women this way and act this way and have all of this sex for lots of good reasons. Blah blah blah reasons.
We’re so quick to explain, rationalize, and spit out all of these great reasons, yet too timid to state the best reason of all: It’s okay to treat women this way because they deserve it.
When you’re camping in the woods and a wild animal enters your campsite, you shoot the animal, or at least run it off. You don’t wait to see if the animal causes any harm.
If your dog bites one of the kids in the neighborhood, you have it put down. It doesn’t matter how good of a dog or how stalwart of a companion it’s been over the years.
If a man murders someone, you execute him if your state allows it, or lock him up for ages if it doesn’t.
If a man rapes someone, you throw him in jail. You then protest and educate society and spread propaganda against all men everywhere for having the potential to be rapists. You demonize and shame masculinity and male behaviors because any man might rape you. You create a society where men can’t sit next to children on airplanes because men might molest them. You create an ad hoc system where a rape accusation is a more effective tool to ruin lives than an actual rape conviction. You engineer a culture of distrust and shame and relegate men to second-class citizens who are constantly called upon to check and censor themselves – then call them privileged.
But when treating women like an asshole, for some reason, we feel compelled to explain and justify ourselves with all of these stupid logical and quasi-science based “reasons”, when really, there’s nothing to explain. Treat women badly because they deserve it.
Women have fought long and hard for the right to no longer be honored and privileged. To have to work jobs like everybody else. To stigmatize homemaking and motherhood. To shame feminine behaviors. To normalize a level of sluttiness that would make the trashiest whores of fifty years ago blush, and make promiscuity not just an option but practically an obligation. To engineer a society where bored wives can cash out of marriages with minimum fuss and maximum gain, and cheating sluts can point a finger and ruin the lives of promising young men with just a word.
If a poisonous snake enters your campsite, you cut its fucking head off for being a snake. You don’t judge that snake on its individual merits. Women are more dangerous animals than snakes.You treat snakes like snakes. You treat women like women.
You don’t need an excuse to treat them badly, think badly of them, or fuck them and leave them. You don’t need to feel bad about this, just because they’re human like you. We treat human men badly without a second thought and rarely take the time to judge every individual man on his merits. Why give a second thought to women? Treat them the way they deserve to be treated. They’ll fuck you for it while laughing at all of the stupid losers who treat them better.
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