This also includes the single moms who have adult children. Eventually, they always find their way back home, and you have to deal with it.

It will take her a few minutes to reset, and then she'll be able to hamster her way out of what he just said.

Assuming she herself is the woman she was talking about, I know exactly why. She assumes that what will attract a man to fuck her (hot, tits hanging out of her bustier dress) is the same as what will attract him to marry her. Sure, I have a kid, but have you seen my tits?! (Or so the thinking goes)

This is doubly ridiculous if you're looking for a rich man. Maybe some handsome loser with little to lose will wife you up (especially if you have money), but not someone rich.

Kevin Samuels used to hammer this point all the time. Rich men don't marry for sex. They can get plenty of sex without marriage. They marry to create a legacy. That means the right type of woman to maintain the household he wants, raises children the right way, and supports him in building his career and legacy. Yes, this may be quite selfish, but no more than what a hot woman expects a man to do, and regardless, those are his demands and he's not going to change them.

A woman like this is good for a quick lay. But the guy is absolutely right. If you're a millionaire, you're not throwing away your chance to use that money to build a legacy and something that will live beyond you and that you can be proud of, to pursue sex with a hot girl.

elder men in the household would have to approve, or vouch for any romantic interest their daughter

Yep, this is how it works in my house. Bringing it back.

Oh he might fuck her. But that's it. We'll fuck lots of different types of women. Millionaires might fuck an only fans girl, just as he would eat at mcDonalds.

the mistake that women think is always this - if he fucks me, he might fall in love with me. I've got a chance. So imma gonna sleep with as many high value men as I can, in the hope that one of them wifes me up.

Well, men are getting smarter every day.

The biggest way he goes soft on her is only listing the risks of what happens if the marriage doesn't work out (e.g. divorce rape, losing the kids you've now bonded with, etc). But the truth is, even if the girl swears to be with you for life, signs a prenup, allows you to adopt her kids, etc. she's still not worthwhile. Because she is not a good partner for building the type of life that a rich millionaire wants. That is, a good mother to raise proper kids, a proper wife that he won't be embarrassed by at the company's christmas party, and someone who can support his career. This isn't that girl. Even if she never leaves, would you want her to raise your kids? Teach them how to twerk instead of tutoring them so they get into an Ivy League college? What part of her upbringing or life experience do you want her to impart on your future children? That's the real dagger to the heart: she wouldn't just be a risk as an ex-wife; she'd be an awful wife to a rich man as well.

Ah the eternal dilemma of women with money - they think that their money qualifies them for the men at the top not realizing that they've made themselves unattractive to those men because of the things the had to become to get that money.

Even before social media in the Dark Ages, women had inflated egos because so few of them experienced full rejection. They could get laid with a hot guy and delude themselves into thinking he's "bad" when he doesn't stay with her but men are not shielded from this. Men sometimes can't even get a DATE where he pays women with food and attention for the privilege of her being with him. That's the equivalent of putting pork chops around your neck and the puppy STILL not wanting to play with you.

In the states, the delusion bubble is like the housing and car market on steroids: The media floods them with girl power, the legal and social system is highly chivalrous. Society tells men that we're "privileged" because we can become CEO's and if we're not, we're losers but that's our fault isn't it? It sounds easy on the face of it: Just because successful and girls will like you but ignores that 2/3d's of small businesses startups fail. "Normal" men with regular jobs are simply schmucks.

It is interesting, as you say, that such women who often do need men simply have no idea how to even understand the men they're targeting. It's not that case outside of our culture where some women are positively mercenary in how they "pick up" successful men, so to speak, but there's a sort of respect in that they at least recognize that they need to do something more than have a list of demands and standards.

like I said, he was going soft on her. When he says "It wouldn't be my first choice" he actually meant "fuck no, not even if hell freezes over"