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Switching between “alpha” and “beta” behaviours creates inconsistency because it reveals emotional reactivity. When things feel good, a man is calm and decisive. When uncertainty hits, he starts over-explaining, over-giving, or seeking reassurance. That’s not strategy; that’s fear leaking through behaviour.
Women don’t analyse this logically; they feel the instability. They don’t know which version of you they’ll get, and that kills polarity over time.
As we already know alpha isn’t being cold or dominant 24/7. It’s emotional self-control. Warm when you choose, silent when you choose, decisive regardless of outcome. No mood swings based on her responses.
If your behaviour changes based on validation or fear of loss, it’s not character, it’s performance. Masculinity is consistency under pressure, not switching masks.
Read More@First-light I think it might have been Joker on his Better Bachelor channel who had a compilation of all these FTM trannies crying and complaining about how they expected life as a man to be easier, but it's harder
It was delicious viewing/listening
A) for not appreciating Smash Mouth or Crowded House, and
B) for violating the dot red bylaws and shit (almost as badly as I violate your mom):
have some vcards!
a few seconds ago 2025-12-30 21:59:26 WhereAreAllTheGoodMen Forum
She reminds me of this WAATGM classic.
This woman is after status, looks, and money - the same as all women. But her mind is so warped and twisted that she equates these desires to awful qualities.
The parallel would be a man saying, "I want to marry a porn star, they are so pretty and have sexual experience." Absolutely stupid, and while we all understand the underlying desire, the object is all wrong.
- Status = Gang leader, perpetual jerk, bully
- Looks = Tall, dark, not white
- Money = Nice car, wealth from "illegal activities" of course
motorbike
Best I can do is Apu from India here. He's "foreign", rides a tiny moped that sounds like a can of angry bees, works 90 hours a week because his mother makes him, and leads a small gang of soccer-playing kids on his one day off a month! He doesn't exactly love dogs, but let's be honest, that's kind of a white European thing, so you might have to settle there.
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