First post here so sorry if it's dumb question.
I don't want to miss potencial leads being too direct or talking more than necessary.
Should I set up the date after the inicial messages or try to build some confort first and see how she reponds?
First post here so sorry if it's dumb question.
I don't want to miss potencial leads being too direct or talking more than necessary.
Should I set up the date after the inicial messages or try to build some confort first and see how she reponds?
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mattyanon Admin 1d ago
Date.
You can't build anything over text.
It's like talking to the police: every word counts against you, nothing helps you.
Jackmoter 4d ago
My most successful formula after getting a number is to send a borderline cringey first message.. "Hey its the cute guy from x" and then to follow up a day later telling them you'll be out of town for the week and you'll text when you're back, you know they'll be devastated but you're sure they'll survive.
After doing this several times because i was actually out of town, I realised it was much more successful than if I tried to immediately set up a date.
Tunyacsap 3d ago
What do you think, Squidward?
Musicgoon78 2 3d ago
Texting for logistics was made so the biggest spergs could at least get to the date and fuck it up from there.
Most guys would instantly send a dick pic. Or tell a girl they just want to smash. This of course would lead them to get blocked.
If your social skills and communication suck, stick to setting up a date soon and text for logistics.
Now here's the truth: A guy with abundance and options isn't even thinking about how much they text. They text whenever they want and aren't thirsty. There not a magic formula or ratio. Just be confident and actually have a conversation. Keep in mind that girls have a lot of options. If you disappear for a week with no contact. It will look like disinterest and she will take that as rejection.
Just text on occasion and be flirty and playful.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1d ago
I've never seen it written from this perspective and it's going into my mental hall of fame
financehardo420 Should i (x1) 3d ago
This is super valid; a lot of guys here take redpill as a calculated scientific approach - it’s a guideline not a specific and precise thing.
General rule of thumb: don’t reply fast as fuck and mirror text length. Don’t send overly sexual messages (it’s creepy if you haven’t already piped) and there ya go.
capodonca 3d ago
Thanks for your answer.
My style intends being flirty and playful, I just took the logistics rule too literally.
Musicgoon78 2 3d ago
Most guys do. It's not uncommon.
lambOfGod 3d ago
You know what got me laid the most?
Staying out of forums like these. Redpill should be one shot and done. Never come back. Take what you need and what you want, apply it, and get the fuck out of this space ASAP.
Yes, you can use it for logistics only. You don't have to disappear for a fucking week like a sperg in the comments said. Just do what you want dude. If the bitch is into you, she will let you smash. Girls will make it easier and clear for you.
The fact that all of you spergs and cucks wanna come up with some fucking nuclear mechanical theory about text game and girl chasing tells me that you fuckers attract trash, rave hoes into your life that will suck your dick for 2 dollars and half a line of coke.
Also, don't you have better things going on in your life than to munch on whether a bitch will reply to you or if it's better to send "Heyyyyyy" with 6 or 4 "y"s to gauge her interest up. Just fucking send it.
Stop gaming chicks that are not into you for whatever 300 reasons. If she wants you to smash, SHE WILL MAKE IT VERY, VERY EASY FOR YOU.
THE ONLY IOI THAT MATTERS IN 2025 IS IF A CHICK IS WILLING TO ISOLATE HERSELF WITH YOU. THAT MEANS IN THE WORST CASE SCENARIO A FUCKING DATE OR BEST CASE AT YOUR PLACE. Everything else is just fucking bullshit.
Stop confusing ATTENTION with ATTRACTION. She may want your ATTENTION, but she is not ATTRACTED to you. How can you tell? Escalate to isolation, and if she is attracted, she will put herself in that situation with you.
Now fuck off from these forums and do your fucking thing
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1d ago
I'm pretty sure he said that disappearing for a week is a horrible idea
You realize a lot of these guys just found red pill for the first time right?
Now there are men on here with 200 posts. Sure. But why shit on dudes that just found trp
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AbusiveFather1 2d ago
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Dxmx99 4d ago
Depends on you greatly. Some guys over text because they're giddy and excited because they may have found the love they've been searching for. Eck. Keep texting simple, stupid. Abundance frame, don't give a fuck, it applies to pretty much everything.
I follow a pretty standard script, personally. I text who I am and when we met "Hey this is the that one cute guy who made your day at xyz."
After that you could text for comfort, such as "had a run in with some dogs after I saw you. Dogs are awesome!"
Then send the details of where you want to meet them. That's just my flow.
capodonca 3d ago
I don't usually care but I thought I was being too hasty with my responses.
I'll add some witty banter before setting up the date, It feels more natural to me that way.