The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
I have had that happen so many times where women think it's easy shit and then realize they are NOT the woman they based that off of
They think it's all me and it's not. It's mostly me but if you can't move a certain way you're not gonna move like her
Although I am very good at teaching women to be malleable so i don't run into it often. They learn quickly from me and it motivates them to try harder
He might have learned a move but he lost his woman's soul
Considering later he looked at her when I said "you two have eachother as dance partners, i didn't have one when i first started" and he looked at her and said "yeah you're stuck with me"
And she said yeah and leaned on his shoulder
Either girlfriend or wife.
Hard to say how the instincts have been blunted, but it should be built in on instinctual level.
I genuinely think he didn't see it. It was probably something i could feel but he couldn't see. I don't know how he didn't. I never stopped talking to him or making eye contact while trying to push his woman's hands away gently
@Vermillion-Rx I have a friend on a dances. We get silly have fun but dance well. She is very thin, fairly tall so it is easy to manipulate her body and it looks good.
Sometimes right after the dance with her a get some older or not so slender woman with a sparkle in the eye that wants to dance with me.
I can see this sparkle usuaquickly disappear when they cant do the stuff the other girl did and they generally are too heavy to manipulate or not flexible enough.
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Bros before Hoes. These guys had a deeper and more profound shared past and journey together than most guy friends by a wide margin, but they got split apart to go their separate ways in a foreign land over the petty manipulations of a woman.
I'd think Russian guys know better than that
How a college girl defeated the Russians in the 80s using only her pussy
A cautionary tale from my blue pilled early 20s.
Time period: Mid to late 80s. Cultural background: President Reagan was at the peak of his gambit of outdoing Russia at diverting a huge portion of our nation's GDP into the insatiable maw of the Military-Industrial complex. Our parents' generation had come of age during the Cuban Missile Crisis and Vietnam War, so there was a strong generational divide between older Americans completely gung-ho for anything that purported to "stand up to/against" the Russians, and Younger Americans coming of age under the strong likelihood that everything Mankind had achieved was constantly under threat of getting wiped out in a sudden outbreak of global thermonuclear war. We did not share our parents' automatic dislike of any and all things Russian, and were openminded toward working past this mindset for our own futures.
While I went straight into the trades, my high school friend (and embarrassing crush) a cute buxom blond gal, attended an arts college an hour away. I spent many a weekend there at parties and hanging out, so I got to watch the players here firsthand.
Her dorm mate was Latina by appearance and surname, but while she'd "let" guys spend their tight college age budget money taking her out on dates, her legs would only fly open for Russian guys for some reason. According to my friend, she would mock and belittle them immediately after these dates. It just so happened that in their class were two Russian exchange students from Kiev, who were friendly and outgoing and became quite popular around campus.
Over the course of years, I watched as she got together with one of them, played the two of them off of each other, then eventually married the "other" one. She turned out not only manipulative at the dating stage, but domineering and demanding at the wife stage. She would show up to social gatherings with her husband, and plant her ass on a seat while making him buzz about serving her like a queen bee.
The two guys were originally best friends who had grown up together and emigrated to a foreign land to spend years assimilating into a new language and culture. By the time this branch of the friend group broke off, they had become cold and suspicious toward each other, and their warm and outgoing personas had turned to a bitter solitary sullenness. One of the last times I saw them, it was announced that she was pregnant. SHE looked supremely happy; he looked and acted the part of someone playing someone else's character in a movie, deeply unhappy but unable to express this.
[B] Lessons to take away:[/b]
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Be aware that just because you find yourself with a cultural or ethnic "in" with a woman that works to your advantage in dating/sleeping with her, Don't assume this can never get turned around and weaponized against you later once she gets time to sink her talons into you.
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If you see your woman manipulating a guy close to her to your short term advantage, recognize this as a red flag that she will do the same to you
- Bros before Hoes. These guys had a deeper and more profound shared past and journey together than most guy friends by a wide margin, but they got split apart to go their separate ways in a foreign land over the petty manipulations of a woman.
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I ask both of them if they need a break and they keep saying no. Him because he wants to learn, her because she obviously doesn't want me to fucking leave.
Id say at least he might learn a new move, right, right? She is a ho anyway if she is so disrespectful. Unless he was only a libertarian friend.
I'm not even sure they see it because "their" girls
Hard to say how the instincts have been blunted, but it should be built in on instinctual level.
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The messages i didn't get from her were sms
It's usually RCS
It had more to do with where she was with her family when that was happening
@Vermillion-Rx what do you use. It sounds like SMS. Ithink its the only service that can send a new message without receiving some messages lost in a matrix, at the same time.
TBH, last time I have heard Bout this kind of issue was ages ago.
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Guys keep frame when you don't get a response back from women
Yes sometimes they ghost or are up to something
Sometimes their service just sucks
Had a good communicator fuck buddy suddenly ghost me last night and i cleverly broached the subject after I reached out this morning and her texts started off short and cold
Once I slyly brought it up she sent me screenshots of all the stuff she sent me last night that i didn't reply to
Her service was trash.
Sometimes shit happens, keep frame. I could have easily made faggot replies this morning after thinking something changed (not that i would have but the point stands).
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Man.
I cold approached a hot girl tonight. "Hey (confidently) so you can say no completely, but would you mind being a demonstration for a move I'm trying to teach my buddy"
She said she didn't know how and I said "that's fine you'll get it immediately I teach very well"
She followed me. Turns out she was one of my dance partners friends and I had no idea. I did a crazy lift with her and bantered a bit and she was clearly loving it
Then her guy comes out of nowhere. Obviously i don't know her or anything. She asks if I can show him that move and it's not possible with how inexperienced he is so i show him basics. He fucking sucks and keeps asking me to demonstrate.
She keeps holding my hand longer and longer and I keep trying to let it go sooner and sooner. Then she starts taking her hand off my shoulder and running it along my chest to take her hand off.
Keep in mind her guy is right there and I'm trying so fucking hard to discourage it and I just can't.
I ask both of them if they need a break and they keep saying no. Him because he wants to learn, her because she obviously doesn't want me to fucking leave.
I'm not gonna bail in the middle of showing this guy how to safely do a move i started teaching him so I keep trying and he just sucks so fucking bad. Even looks like a chode. I don't know how these women i would fuck the shit out of end up with these chodes but here we are.
I'm doing everything I can to help this man not be an inept faggot but here we are having his hot girlfriend he shouldn't have touching me every 5 seconds
Once he got the move I immediately bailed.
Ended up standing next to my dance partner friend and her again and she immediately copied my body language and starts asking me questions. I felt so fucking bad. I had to be extra nice to her guy when he got back
I can't help but feel sorry for these guys, in part because i know their girls probably jill off to me later and would rather fuck me.
And in part because these women often never once announce they have a guy. When i cold approached, if she had said "I'd love to but I'm waiting for my boyfriend/husband" i would have said no problem
Here I am gaming this woman and have honestly no idea she's with someone. She told me the second time "I've never been lifted in my life"
I'm like "not even by 'dad'" and she said no. whether true or not it's the mark of a deprived woman.
I have a soft spot for these chodes. They are so fucking clueless. And their women touch me in front of their dude. I'm not even sure they see it because "their" girls are so subtle about it. The slow hand removal from my body. I feel it but I'm not sure their guy can see it.
Most people in my life know i haven't been in a relationship in like 13 years and they wonder why.
Not even safe from your girlfriend/wife even right in front of her where you can see everything
God this woman didn't want to let go of my hand/body while I was teaching them. It's hard to keep a straight face when you are not only distracted teaching but also running red pill analysis through your head in the middle of it
I have almost zero faith in women after everything I've experienced being confident
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