So she took 12 years between leaving school and getting a doctorate? What is the state of her finances now?

Has she learned anything useful to a man or his children that would make her a better choice than a younger debt free (and probably less entitled) woman?

Been on lots of dates? Hmm that sounds attractive. Used to the point of ruin and inability to pair bond? Certainly its a risk.

Gets ghosted, well why? Is it that all those guys just found a great woman, invested all that effort and now its time to ghost her, just when the sex with a new woman should be great? Hmm something just sounds like it doesn't fit here. Are all the men very poorly chosen? Is the woman insufferable even when you are banging her and she is new, enthusiastic and keen? Can anyone think of any other reason than these two why men ghost her after investing a fair bit?

Yeah as the lady says. Single 30 year old women are probably not OK these days. Some will be but the odds are against it.

So she's a newly minted doctor eh?

Yeah can't imagine why men would not want to commit to someone that has massive educational debts to pay off, or otherwise volunteer to be on the hook for her expectations given that she is in a situation where she either has no proper time and energy to spare for a relationship due to working to pay off her debt, or alternately, is not paying off her debt and foisting it upon the man while she poops out womb turds. Neither outcome is a good offer to men.

How do I know she has massive debt? Because women collectively are damn well aware debt is an issue and would bring up that they are debt-free if they didn't have any. Trickle truths and lies by omission are the minimum standard expectation when dealing with women, especially in dating (and her "friend" making the original post of course doesn't see the debt as an issue to bring up since she's not expected to be on the hook for it, boys should just open their wallets, tee-hee).

Women forget they are dealing with a generation of men that watched their fathers, uncles, and older brothers get absolutely fleeced using the same starting script and have no desire to star in that same play. Some even had it happen to their grandfathers. Literally generational trauma at work here, inflicted by the hands of women. But sure, ladies, go ahead and indulge in mealy-mouthed man-shaming on social media and out yourselves as both predatory and unreasonable, see where that gets you with men that have clued the fuck in.

She effectively has married her job and doesn't realize it. And that's before considering that a 30+ year old woman is fighting an uphill battle by default, especially when hunting for Chad tier men that can replace her with college age women who are younger and less in debt with a single swipe. And I doubt she is dating beach bums (anymore - debts got to get paid), like most women she is expecting to marry up economically, which in her case is probably a C-suite MBA or well established surgeon tier uber-Chad.

You'd think someone with a PhD could do a basic actuary analysis and realize that if a man could rent a steady stream of whores, maids, and possibly surrogates for less investment and risk than her personal asking price of her debts and lifestyle expectations, while still receiving the same or greater affection and loyalty - he will.

Or that instead he would hold out for a woman that at least has enough sociopolitical connections to make taking on her debt worth both the immediate asking price and imputed divorce costs. Otherwise, he's just going to pass and knock up one of his PA's as the child support by itself would still be cheaper.