Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
kevin32
Posted 1y ago in WAATGM In The Making - Permalink - Locked - 7.6K Views
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago Stickied
Feminists are ugly by Dalrock.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Nailed it. Everything from their aversion to doing anything “traditional” to their desire for a higher earning partner even after they invested 5-7 years into postsecondary education for a career (because they want that guy to pay for the yucky stuff while they buy luxury goods for themselves), they’re just repulsive people. What is inspiring about being with a person who only wants to be with you because you make her life easier?
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
A woman unwilling to love is equivalent to a man unwilling to protect.
Disgusting
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
I had forgotten about that one. I need to do a Dalrock re-reading binge sometime soon.
Oddest-One-Here 1y ago
The comments are also well worth mentioning.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
There still seems to be loads of women around that think that offering sex is enough of an incentive for a man to provide food and shelter. They are out of date. The value of pussy has been declining for decades.
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
It's quite simple: put out or get out. Plenty of chicks out there willing to give it up more for less.
reignoferror00 1y ago
"So ... wait ... you can't do helpful and nice things until sex happens?"
If sex isn't happening, my wanting to do 'helpful and nice things' isn't happening. Sex is a "helpful and nice thing". If you're going to "check out" of the intimate/sex part of the relationship, I'm checking out of most everything else. Who's working, and gets taken for granted, to pay most of those constant "boring" utility, house, and automobile bills.
Quid pro quo, Clarice. or at least find me someone else willing to do that "job".
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yes, it's so difficult to put dishes in a machine and turn it on... and make a sandwich... and put clothes in a machine and push a button... and spread your legs...
I've advised guys with wives like this to hire out the lawn work, get a maid a couple times/wk, and hire out any other chores. Then make cuts to the budget for nonessential things like hair styling, nails, make up, etc.
Everpax 1y ago
Love it when they out themselves as settling for purely financial reasons, given how negative they are about having sex with the partner they picked.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Some surprisingly good commentary from the reddit people. Only the original shrieking harpy in the Facebook screenshot went off the rails.
Choreplay was debunked by both Dalrock and Rollo over a decade ago.
Doing dishes or other chores will never make her want sex, and you should only be doing them because they need to be done. I mean, of all the women I banged before I upgraded one from "plate" to "girlfriend" to "wife", I don't recall doing chores as their place before getting laid. They fucked because they wanted to fuck.
On the flip side, women, you should be having sex with your man because you love, value, and appreciate him, even when he misses a coffee cup or forgets something.
Sex is supposed to be mutually beneficial, mutually enjoyable, and mutually desired. If she's withholding, and you have your shit in order (you're not fat and soft, your finances are good, you don't act like a wuss and kowtow to her, etc), then she's not really worth keeping around.
I'm rambling a bit in my pre-coffee haze, but you get the idea.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It all reduces to what men want, and wanting sex is natural. We're wired for it, and so are women. Feminauts are just railing against the very thing that is the nucleus of a healthy pairing.
Its why women who try to self-promote themselves on the basis of their career or degree (a feminaut-driven push) have less success. Do I want the woman in my life to be intelligent? Sure. But I can't fuck her degree. I can't fuck her condo or her new car. So she better understand that fucking is part of the formula.
Feminism is designed to toss everything upside-down and make women like men, frankly. Which is why a lot of men are walking away from that bullshit.
MelkorHimself Mod 1y ago
I don't cohabitate with women, but if I were to do so I'd want there to be some net benefit over living alone. I currently do 100% of my laundry, cooking, cleaning, etc while working 45-50 hours per week. If I'm going to add another person to the household, it needs to be peaceful and worth my while.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
And beyond just sex.
Sex is the glue that holds a relationship together, but it's a minimum, a beginning.
If she adds no other value to your life, but is sponging off of you, she's a live-in prostitute, just like this idiotic whore revealed herself to be in her lame attempt to troll.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
I rather liked the description of it as "writing your name at the top of the test so you got any credit at all". You still had to do well on the rest of the test, but you couldn't skip putting your name on it either.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Modern feminism can be summed up as men should do everything women want, such as chivalry AND doing house chores but without demanding women have sex with them and... women will use transaction sex to demand stuff from men and... women will blame men when their transaction sex feels like "work." Basically, women should do as they please and men should exist to please women.
Consider: We hear how "real" men should enjoy being providers, pursuing women, and passing shit tests and such but shouldn't "real" women enjoy doing house chores then? Demanding men do house chores is similar to men getting angry if a woman doesn't mow the lawn or clean the gutters.
That being said, I have a dishwasher (not the wife) to put dishes in and take out and a vacuum clean and such so this isn't rocket science really. If this was the 1940's, sure, it would be a big deal about house chores but it's not anymore. My wife considered my bachelor pad a pig-sty but it wasn't that bad because I did the basic stuff but not to her ultra hospital like standards.
My wife values me I think for the fact that I'm the most honest person she has in her life. I will die for our child, I will kill to protect my, and my family's interests, and she knows that any shit tests she gives me will get double back in return. The one aspect of masculinity that modern feminism didn't give women is integrity. To grow to become a person who knows what matters and stand up to that, no matter what.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
Pretty much. Notice the condescending woman in the comments who sneers "it's your house" to make the point that he isn't actually "helping out" by pitching in-- it's an insulting phrase which suggest that cleaning is women's work-- so I guess he ought to be providing everything in the house and cleaning the whole damn thing while the woman hangs around, eats his food and impersonates a leech. That she can live in "his" house rent free, doing very little, is a presupposed birthright.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
The ONLY thing an entitled woman mindset brings to the table is sex in exchange for everything else and then... they argue that "consent" and such means that he doesn't get guaranteed even that. A "real man" is someone whose supposed to bring everything to beg for sex.
I didn't understand this back 35 years ago but I did have a sort of gut feeling about it. That sort of like what Paul says in Corinthians, need for sex is this thing that sucks away all your humanity. He took this a bit too far but he has a point in that when a man becomes dependent upon sex, or anything for that matter, he accepts a life of dehumanized domination.
I'm chuckling about what must have gone through young women's minds back in the late 1980's when I went on dinner dates with corporate nuns. They were lovely compared to many modern women: No tats or face piercings, immaculately made up, and they demanded I pay for dinner but I insisted upon going dutch and they left me in disgust thinking I must have been insane.