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7h ago The Hub
Actually, our experiences are opposite.
I used to seek substance in women, until I realised that I am chasing an illusion. It's not her job.
That's when I started to evaluate women for their obedience.
Women will take on whatever you put in them, they have no real opinions of themselves.
Also, I don't like these blanket manosphere terms like "high value".
highly desirable is more tangible.
Hey nerds,
Most of my previous posts about pulling had a positive outcome. Free thinkers however, benefit more from learning off other's mistakes. But ultimately it's the humongous dick having sigma-chad males who adopt a solid mindset that gets the worm.
Instead of listing out my countless mistakes, I've written a summary of what all these mistakes lead up to. My ultimate truth (mindset).
The thing about mistakes is, if you aren't perfect, you're gonna have to make them. Mistakes reveal you to yourself. Mistakes are like teachers. But too many people just don't bloody listen, the same way they don't see their own folly. They don't know that they don't know and that is a fucking tragedy.
Foundation The most important thing I learned to develop from my mistakes while getting pussy was mindset.
Mindset is a power that knows no limit. Think David Goggins, Alex Honalds. You can't fuck the smelly obese pansexual pink hair girl? No, actually you can! Why place limits on yourself? Just believe.
Second to mind-set would be one's ability to be in the moment.
Followed by emotional mastery. You know the deal.
EQ is another skill that can be improved infinitely. Having solid EQ is necessary to glue everything together. The higher your EQ, the more solid it holds the foundation together. Actually, EQ is an underrated topic in the manosphere. All my success grtting laid has been found mostly in improving EQ trait.
Every other skill such as charm, wit, humor yadda yadda follows naturally once a solid foundation develops.
The mindset that's really worked for me is striving for genuine connection over sex.
Where there js genuine connection, there's an abundance of pussy and may it ease your erection.
This is akin to
Chase money and the girls chase you. Money can be replaced with purpose.
Work on yourself, and the girls will follow.
If you chase butterflies, they'll fly away from you. Instead, work on building your garden which attracts the butterflies.
Fun challenge (also kinda productive, depends on the person though) to improve your EQ within a year.
Get to 1000 followers on instagram in 1 year. Any follower you haven't personally met does not count. You only gotta get 20ish followers a week. It gets easier the more you do it. Script You:hey your styles rad, where'd you get that jacket from? (Fashion topic ties to instagram) Girl/guy/your grandma: it's from xyz You:oh cool, talk some shit, you on insta? I'll follow you. Takes 3-5 minutes. It's much faster in the mosh pit. You won't need a script. Just do some sign language and hand your phone to them with instagram open. They'll get the idea.
Once I got 7 followers in like 3 minutes cause my phone got passed around a group and they all put their instagrams in it.
Now, you could just imagine the wonders this little challenge could do for your preselection.
Instagram has no age limit either. Every genz person has it installed, and older people who use instagram are considered quite hip.
I've gained 150 followers the last 2 weeks from going out 5 nights. Each night I get 20-40 follows from just talking to people.
Assuming this trend continues, thats 300 followers per month.
Instagram does wonders for your pre-selection. This is because profiles display mutual followers.
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Read More@Typo-MAGAshiv certainly not, I'm not that educated I'm from Africa
6h ago The Hub
Incredibly dumb and boring is not desirable to me.
Once again I stand by my assertation. You might not have enough experience or you might just attract/be attracted to shitty women.
Anyways, I tend to avoid nihilistic views on people. Is a sign of computer touching and consuming rage porn.
So, men are "dogs" and she's happy being single for the rest of her life.
Happy enough, that she joined a online dating site to check out the offerings.
The real story here is she's way past her sell-by date, and she is disgusted that men want youth and beauty.
37m ago The Hub
That's where I respectfully disagree with you.
I am not sure if you've delt with enough real women, but this blanket "if she likes you she'll automatically follow" is a false myth of the manosphere.
Women are much more complex than that.. she can love you and cry her eyes out for you.. but she is still subject to her emotions, whims, fears, ego, peer, social pressure and other inner and outer forces.
Also what says that I date dumb, useless women?
Strangely enough (and I've left some written record on this platform) I tend to attract high IQ women (engineers, computer sciences, doctors, amongst other). Strangely enough the smarter women (and coincidentally, the taller women too) happen to be the most submissive.
It's the dumb bitches that think they are too smart (or too proud) to follow a man's lead.
Bu that's just my experience.
Read More@Chantfire I'm currently considering monk mode. When dealing with pain (insatisfaction with life, breakups, loss) it feels like the most reasonable solution for men. We're too hurt to date again unless we dramatically lower our standards, and there's a deep wound that needs healing. I see monk mode as the psychological analog of bone healing: after a fracture, the body creates inflammation in the damaged zone and isolates it so it can heal. In monk mode you isolate yourself to heal and come back when the new life tissue has formed within you