Obviously there are many cases of older women, older single mothers and younger men having a succesful relationship all throughout wedding and end. I'm not saying this is ever impossible but I would sometimes come across older women, including single moms who would think that a long-term, marriage type of relationship would fruition forever after with a younger man. Recently had to console a close friend, but I mean, the facts are all there, she's 30s, he's 20s.
What did she expect?? Especially with single mothers, unless she's purposely fine tuning and targeting men who will be able to provide for them, be around their age and even have children of his own, I don't quite see the point of the drama some women are doing in the dating scene. Yes, there are single mothers who know what the gig is, and some are even so open and lax, you'd be lucky to bump into one who knows it may just all be about sex, plus side here is that they can be too busy for an actual relationship since they're mothers. But some just don't see this, and I don't quite get it.
Dating or getting with older women, older single mothers, can be great but some want more than just strings attached. They should just be better off dating men in similar situations. But this is also kind of a sad fact for most of them, more so if you happen to get caught in the crossfires. But some can make it work and are fine with becoming a stepfather, she'd have to be super attractive or be some sort of almighty sugar mama as most young men struggle financially
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Justanaverageguy 9mo ago
I’m seeing this more and more. It’s divorced moms mostly. I’m fact a girl in my high school class is 42 and dating a 31 yr old man after she divorced her husband of 16 years. Posting pics all over the place, it’s very weird. Another girl I know is 38 with a 29yr old baby daddy lol
mattyanon Admin 9mo ago
They don't want to see it. Short term: it's better to lie and take the hot sex than it is to be honest and make long term decisions.
Eating donuts, not exercising, drinking, dating hot losers: it's all the same short termism.... fun now, pay later.
SeasonedRP 9mo ago
Women tend to be present-oriented and don't think long term the way some men do, even if they claim otherwise. It also gives them validation; some women really struggle with their looks fading with age.
Lone_Ranger 1 9mo ago
"Obviously there are many cases of older women, older single mothers and younger men having a succesful relationship "
No there are not. These type of relationship rarely end well. The only ones that last are where the guy is actually gay and can't come out of the closet, and needs a wife as a beard. Gay guys really like old infertile bitches as a fag hag companion.
Like Emanuel Macron. I highly suspect Hugh Jackman as well.
mattyanon Admin 9mo ago
Ideally not. She wants his resources for her own children.
They don't want to get it.
Don't forget these women are not in the real world very much, but they are on TikTok continuously..... which is gasing them with "you go girl" and "you got this" and "single mothers are the bestttttt" and "you deserve everything".
Yes, but this isn't what they want. TikTok tells them they can get a hot 25 year old billionaire who only has eyes for a fat old single mother.
Well, she's not a "sugar mama" - those just don't happen.
Most don't want to be a father to ANY kids at first...... men want 5 years of fun dating before settling into fatherhood. Kids from day 1 is a nightmare if they're his own, and worse than a nightmare if someone else's.
Her having kids is 3 points off her SMV. So if she's a Hot 9 with kids then she's about the same as a single 6. If she's a 7 with kids, she's not going to find a great guy.
financehardo420 9mo ago
Facts I personally would never even consider getting into an LTR w a milf. recreational use only there’s no shot in fuck I’m spending a penny of my savings towards raising another man’s kids.