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some old series 'Nanny'?
It was semi-popular in the 1990s. It wasn't as big as "Seinfeld", "Friends", or "Frasier", but was still well liked.
It was entertaining and pretty funny, with a lot of the humor coming from Fran getting away with shit she shouldn't have, and sometimes getting in trouble with the boss.
Much of the actual plot was a bit far-fetched.
@FrancoAP naw
If women had never been granted voting privileges, I doubt FDR's "New Deal" or LBJ's "Great Society" crap would have ever come to pass
Allowing women a say in how things are done was the cause, not a byproduct
“Different Drum” – Linda Ronstadt (1970)
That was the Stone Ponies (for which she was the singer), and it wasv recorded in the 1960s (at least according to the "Mellow Sixties" cassette I wore out when I was a kid).
Side note: Linda Ronstadt was my dad's biggest celebrity crush. He was heartbroken to find out she was a dirty commie.
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brownpride1488 - chasing external validation
those of you that had a problem with chasing external validation: how did you fix it?
i have a need to be accepted by everybody, and often that need clashes...... [more]
None of us ever fix wanting external validation. Humans are social animals and so what the group thinks is important. However, it is right to not over invest in it as external validation is a poor currency and people's opinions can turn valueless, just when you most want to rely on them.
Its just a case of keeping it in perspective. Acknowledging the need for external validation as existing can help with getting it balanced. Its OK, so long as you don't whore out to it. So one needs to ask "is this a rational amount to invest in what others think about me? Washing and keeping your hair tidy -low level investment that is worth it. Acting like a liberal so that liberals want to assimilate you into their rainbow coloured circle of paranoia, less worth it.
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Reply To brownpride1488 - chasing external validation
those of you that had a problem with chasing external validation: how did you fix it?
i have a need to be accepted by everybody, and often that need clashes...... [more]
One of the foundational texts and long time staple of the sidebar of the MarriedRedPill is No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover. I know this text was transformative for me. The text asks questions such as "If you didn't care what people thought of you, how would you live your life differently? If you weren't concerned with the approval of women, how would your relationships with the opposite sex change?" It is filled with pivotal mental models and exercises that help in becoming your own source of validation (which is ultimately what the red pill is about). I would start there. Ultimately, owning internal validation and having no need for external validation is one of the cornerstones of frame.
It's available for free on YouTube in audiobook format so you can listen to it at the gym or driving to a plate's house or whatever. Though it's not a long read. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PAKVaYHCaDQ&t=1127s
Then after you finish that, When I Say No I Feel Guilty by Manuel Smith wouldn't be a bad idea.
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@deeplydisturbed yeah as long as they have a place to crash late at night or early AM and not on the streets after having fun, they don't care about much of anything else as a base motivation
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She's trying to frame smiling (not having her usual Resting Bitch Face) as actual "effort." She thinks she has met the man halfway and therefore it's up to him to put in some effort and approach.
But this just seems like another case of: Men must "do" and women only must "be." She didn't want to really "do" anything. She just wanted to "be," and put the onus on tall-Chad to sweep her off her feet while she pretended to shop for avocados or whatever.
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Reply To brownpride1488 - chasing external validation
those of you that had a problem with chasing external validation: how did you fix it?
i have a need to be accepted by everybody, and often that need clashes...... [more]
Bro, everyone has flaws and insecurities. People walk around pretending to have it all figured out. They don't.
Keep lifting weights. It's good for your physical and mental health. It's almost a requirement..
Being a narcissist is a fucking terrible idea. Narcissistic people are deeply insecure.
Accomplish shit, lift and learn to love yourself. There's no quick answer.
I suggest go out and have a day of brutal honesty with everyone. Some people will respect you for it, Others won't. Get used to the feeling of thinking for yourself.
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