Its tough being a woman. You are either suffering some unfair ill or you are acutely recovering from it or you are doing an unfair amount of work on something that you wanted (like having a tidy house or over styled hair). Its even dangerous meeting a man for dinner. In fact you have a statistically significant chance of being murdered every day. Its lower than a man's chance of being murdered but its still no fair. NO FAIR! men need to support women cos life is NO FAIR!

Faced by such a woman a man has one choice -get involved in the misery or pass. I always passed. Once or twice it took me longer to figure out what sort she was than it should have but once I did, I always passed. In the end I thought that taking on the burden of someone like that's misery and insecurity was not worth the benefit (pussy access if and when she felt like it). It just wouldn't be a fair trade.

Women set the price, men who are able to meet the price buy or not. I strongly advise men to purchase more carefully as recent generations have out bid each other for low value.

Went out with some guy friends on the weekend. Went to three bars that night.

First venue

1. Uninterested
2. Opened with "hey what's your name". Talked a bit. Got the number
3. Small talk but uninterested.

Second venue

Talked to two girls

1. Platonic convo. I wasn't very interested either
2. Good convo, but not very sexual. Got the number

Third venue

Talked to three girls

1. Girl wasn't hygienic so I left
2. Uninterested
3. Opened with "Hey you're so cute". Good convo. Got the number

So far my night game has been mostly direct. I want to expand more on situational openers or random questions. Wanted to hear some favourites of you guys. During daytime situations I can come up with situational openers better. During night game I find it a bit trickier because everyone's doing the same thing and it's harder to comment on the situation.

Second thing is I need to redirect the conversation from just platonic. Or even if it's interesting I need to sexualize it more. I'm holding eye contact and doing kino and this helps. Not sure if anyone recommends ramping up the innuendos and dirty talk at a venue or save that for later.

Lastly logistics regarding a girl in a group or with her friend. Do you find yourself trying to move venues with just her?

After my recent breakup and dealing with severe anxiety and heartbreak, somehow I managed to act.

Will not get into the breakup of my relationship, it just happen recently. I am lost, feeling lonely and heartbroken, jumping from severe anxiety to just anxiety on a daily basis.

As I was trying to keep busy from thinking about my pain, i spotted a chick on social media, I had her as a friend for a while but never spoken with her, i did see her around the city a while so I decided to message her.

I texted her some compliments about the way she rides her motorcycle, I thought nothing of this and moved on with my day. Later she replied that she's surprised that I noticed that and that she's happy for the compliments.

We started chatting about motorcycles and school and life, nothing too deep, just lightweight stuff.

Morning comes and her messages are just the same but she quickly turns into a sad message as she had her Long distance "relationship" end. In my heartbroken pain i decided to just voice message her with simply "You are sad, let me take you out of the house and you will feel better". She rejected my proposal at first but I insisted one more time with "how about I convince you to go out and fell better about today?".

I get the simple text back 5 minutes later "alright, i think i'm going out, where are we meeting?".

We ended up meeting in a good place in the city and what was supposed to be a "1 hour walk and we talk" thing, ended up being 3 hours of walking and talking, then driving her car, then staying in the car for more than an hour.

After much talking and personal insights into ourselves, we ended up french kissing in front of everyone, as the car was parked front first next to a nice place full of people.

We have plans to go out again "As friends" because we are both heartbroken and we need to take it easy. I don't care either way, even if she ends up being just a friend, she's a good addition to my life.

What i've learned here?

• I'm strong yet I don't know it yet.
• Just because some bad thing happened to you, it does not stop you to act on your logic and do something, even if it means risking feeling worse.
• I got game, both in text and face to face. When i was with this chick, i turned her around from "not wanting to kiss" to having a full blown making session.
• Heartbeak hurts a lot, my mind is filled with bad thoughts, but when I was with this chick, my brain was quiet, the pain was less present.