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Question-- I forgot the name of the individual I should DM if I wanted to ask about a site-wide post. Thnx v much.
TRP (it's mindset and tools) is not meant to be popular.
From what I gather it's a group of men looking for ways group societal thinking from governments or industries fucks us globally.
From letting women work to increase tax income conspiracy theories
To how to get the 6.7 hb pixie chick in my feminist lecture Bible study.
Or preventing divorce rape.
Focusing on alpha is a distraction. You either getting fucked, or doing the fucking in the capitalist world. Or you take a libertarian stance and do both.
48 laws of power is TRP sidebar without clear sanctions. In my opinion.
New Year thought for the …. uh… year:
Collectively we have an average of a few decades of life experience among us. And when we talk about blue pill vs red pill thinking, it is easy to forget one key thing. Perhaps THE most important thing ever.
Women have been lying in collusion with each other since the beginning of time.
We can give them a break by acknowledging that they “had to” because men in the past would kill them for infidelity, or any one of a number of other reasons.
But one thing remains crystal clear: women are natural born liars. On top of that, they have a strong in-group preference with and for other women.
One could write a paper on this topic or more. But the bottom line is that collectively, the lies that women have told have had perhaps the biggest impact on the trajectory of human history than any other single factor. Fuck citing sources, and fuck peer review (aka “gate keeping” aka “system approval”). We have the data sets now. We can determine for ourselves how to proceed from here.
To sum this all up, with my own biases clearly delineated here and throughout my body of work, I offer the following:
- Women have shaped the course of human history more than any ten wars put together.
- Women are not evil - they just exist as an entity, like sharks, mosquitoes, or bacteria. They play a role in any given ecosystem.
- Red pill content may be the most profound shift in consciousness than almost any other ideology, or religion that has ever existed. Think about Islam, the Catholic church, and Judaism - the Red Pill may be larger than all of these combined. It will just take a century or two to see results. Our ideas are new, but the mainstreaming of them IS new.
- Dealing with reality is almost always preferable to dealing in lies.
I’ll stop there.
Happy New Year my brothers. I wish you well in the coming year. It is shaping up to be a pretty interesting one.
Yours truly,
DD
Read MoreRed pill content may be the most profound shift in consciousness than almost any other ideology, or religion that has ever existed.
This may sound far fetched, but it is nevertheless true. It's what I've been saying too since the Trump craze started: Trumpism will pass, the Red Pill will stay.
There were "red pills" about female nature encoded in old religions, some very profound too (the myths about the vagina having teeth come to mind), but the difference with the Red Pill is that gender dynamics are, for the first time, examined consciously, by masses of men.
I still think that the Red Pill is a bit too entwined with the Right ideology, and that's a problem. Case in point is the widespread perception of Alpha as a "type of man", while it is a state of being which every man, except for the lunatics, enters and exits. But we're clearing this out, gradually (and I highly recommend @Woujo 's writings on this).
Read MoreHappy New Year, whenever that may happen in your time zone, Gents!
Why do you feel the need for validation from girls that you are like warm about? You're getting laid from girls you like.
Is this a humblebrag or just a weird lack of frame? Not everyone is going to like you and you aren't going to like everyone. That is just how it goes.
Cold approach is a lone wolf fantasy imo. Outta approaching 100 women you get maybe 1-3 lays/success's. (if you're not retarded)
Yes, but you can fuck her multiple times. So if you approach 100 girls and fuck 3 of those girls 10 times each, that's one fuck per 3 approaches.
You try to use social context to your advantage dating in ecosystems like Uni. or clubs. But then I feel like "DaT GuY". Cause I don't like being around people much it's a lot of bullshit. Guess get over it.
ok, so you hate social game
My thought process: Ideally you cold approach outside your ecosystems. And build slow leads inside your ecosystems to find a good prospect.
ok...
Online dating is a dumpster fire. Its not real life. People act very differently IRL. Most of the woman either all have the same generic profile or goth/liberal chick who wants me to have a tramp stamp. I switched my profile to be labeled as a woman for 5 mins and had 20 likes. ITS CRAZY.
OLD is awful, yes
But at the end of all the work it's the women your left with.
right
I don't trust women with marriage.
Marriage is a one sided providership contract to give her a cushy retirement at your expense.
And even in LTRs when you're not there they're flirting with other guys for attention. I've had good looking girls with decent guys give me sexual attention. I know its not cheating but if I saw my gal acting like that i'd be disgusted.
right
The problem:
So i'm left with casual dating women the rest of my life. No marriage. maybe have a LTR here and there but... It's gonna get harder and harder the older I get.
It's certainly going to get harder to fuck 20 year olds after 45, yes
It's weird cold approaching in your late 30s and 40s and 50s. Im 20 so i can pass off as the young stupid guy.
It's only weird because you make it weird
How da hell do I keep this up? assuming i take care of my body to be physically attractive. Do I just end up single and alone around 40? Do I just give in a find a LTR at 40?
Well, it's easy at 40. It's harder at 50 for sure.
I'm just going be a normal guys who has his own place with generic normal salary. At some point i become 40 year old guy who's still single.
I'm uncertain of the future with todays modern landscape. Because alot of women are like scorpions and i'm playing frogger.
Well, your options are nothing, or keep it casual, or open long term relationships with multiple women (my preferred), or monogamy.
Your post though, amounts to "all my options suck".
And I feel you. We all feel you. But it reads like you are suddenly shocked that you're not going to marry a virgin and you are not going to get the 1940's horny housewife dream.
What does that leave....... well, choose from the above. Varying amounts of casual to monogamy, avoid marriage, and find fulfilment where you can in life.
I feel that hollywood glamorizes the eternal bachelor lifestyle. I'm not a rich guy backed by the script.
money doesn't help
I'm a normal guy who dosen't trust the institution of marriage and the women i'd be signing it with.
good.
stop being normal, start being amazing.
I feel my only option is to get lucky and find a good gal someday.
This is not going to happen until you make it happen.
You find a great girl by being a great guy AND LEARNING HOW TO DATE.
Even a great girl will shit test and play all the same shit. At least a little bit. She's not going to be impressed with your neo-virginal "waiting for miss right".
But i'd really just be compromising. I feel extremely vulnerable when i'm committed to a woman.
Right, and you really are.
How are you guys doing?
Facing the same shit you are, except in my case I've accepted it more than you have.
Read MoreThis "Minor Youtuber" might not even exist - and more importantly, who cares. It's a crappy short story/intro to hook interest with dubious detailed (why list the state where this minor youtuber lives?). The point that "he's losing his career" applies to a billion men around the globe.
This whole thing looks sounds like "be a good provider".
Look...... never count on a woman to stand by you or even stick around. Women are loyal to themselves and to a lesser extent their children and to an even less extent their pussies AND THAT'S IT. Not to any man and not to you. The closest to loyalty that you can hope for is that she'll stick with you while you are her best option.
Men are loyal. Women are loyal to themselves.
The bottom line is this:
- be in control of your life.
- If you don't own something and can't control that thing, then don't invest in it because it is not yours and it will not pay dividends.
This applies to friends, this applies to possessions, this applies to material things, and most of all this applies to women.
You own your body, your life, your career and your stuff. You do not own women and you don't own relationships.
This whole "women will / should stand by a man with this list of qualities" is trying to bring back the 1950's.
Sorry my dude, that ship has sailed and that ship has sunk.
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