Soooo........ you wanna be good with women, huh? Want the secret? Screen. Screen like your life depends on it. Screen when the weather is nice. Screen when the weather is shit. Screen when you're feeling sexy as fuck. Screen when you're feeling an impending off day. Now with all of this screening, there's bound to be something super embarrassing (and hilarious) that happens to you. In this post, i'll break down the different type of interactions you'll come across.
In terms of enjoy-ability, i'll go from the least to the most.
When you're in the wild looking for a dtf chick, chances are that you will speak to many different chicks before you find one. The worst type of interaction you will have is one where there are consequences. Rarely are the consequences damaging to you, but they can be pretty embarrassing. Sometimes even the cops get involved.
At the least dtf end of the spectrum, you will find women that are generally not interested in anything that you're saying. They may not stop and speak with you if you try to stop them. They may not even respond when you approach them. In most cases, they will slow down and listen enough to determine that you're trying to hit on them before they give you the cold shoulder. These are chicks that don't like you, they'll forget you existed the moment you leave, or chicks they'll run away from you as soon as you reach out to touch them. These are the women that you will creep out and are the most likely to call the cops on you or bad mouth you to others. If you aren't screening super hard then you don't need to worry about any repercussions aside from a little embarrassment by being badmouthed. These will be some of your most awkward/creepy interactions. If you're looking for eye contact then these types will be a thing of the past.
Next up you'll find women that will be witty, talkative, and maybe even a bit flirty with you - all without the sexual attraction element. These types will engage in a conversation that may even include taboo subjects (sex), but as soon as you touch them any more than normal they will stiffen up on you and you will feel the vibe of the interaction mentioned in the previous paragraph(ie creeped out). In most situations, I barrel through this awkwardness just to be absolutely sure that she isn't interested. Sometimes she is and sometimes she isn't. The only surefire way to know is to screen and burn the set to the ground. These chicks aren't likely to call the cops on you or badmouth you, but they will run away in a hurry if you screen them and they aren't interested.
The third type of interaction you will find yourself in is one where the conversation is super clumsy and the girl is putting forth no effort whatsoever to hold up her end. There are broken sentences, lots of eye contact, lots of looking away, etc. Don't worry though. As long as you're screening/escalating and she hasn't left, she is interested. Just be sure to continue pushing the interaction forward by screening. These types are okay with me, but I always try to get some type of verbal confirmation just so I can know where her heads at. Most of the time this type of interaction will lead to a dtf chick, but in some cases she may just be terrified. Proceed with caution and if you aren't advanced with the screening concept yet, don't bother with this type.
Now this last interaction is my absolute favorite. Everything from physicality to verbal flirting is smooth as fuck. She isn't resisting in the least. She's flirting with you verbally or physically and there is a ton of prolonged eye contact. This interaction is very very sexy. She's letting you screen her harder and harder while she's just enjoying herself. Everything about this interaction is fun. These types lead to more than a one night stand in most cases - probably because you're just her type. She's completely available and/or has probably been looking for someone like you. The only thing that can fuck you up in this situation is your fear of screening her out. That isn't something that you should be concerned with.
As long as I have been following this concept, these are the interactions that I mostly have. Sometimes they blend together, but most of the time they're fairly clear cut. No need to commit any of this to memory because if you're properly screening then you will see exactly what I mean. Stay safe out there and have fun.
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So you were raised by a single mom or a mom and a pussy of a dad and you believe in finding your one true love. The ideal woman won't cheat or entertain any other guy at any time. There will be no cheating and there will be effort from both sides.
Growing up in a household without a father or with a pussy of a father, you haven't been properly taught the lessons of the opposite sex. Since you had nothing to believe in, you believed what disney and other mainstream hollywood stories pitched you. Not your fault, but if you continue to believe in it after having the reality thrust in front of you then please continue searching for your disney romance.
Modern society teaches monogamy and making it work regardlesss of anything that may happen. She cheats? Work it out. She refuses you sex every single time? Work it out. She fucked your brother, dad, and mother - all at the same time? Work it out and get over it, pussy. The reality of the situation is that men and women both buy into this fantasy; however, women don't resist their gut when it calls them whereas men sometimes do. He will continue putting his best foot forward with the hopes that she will do the same. In most cases, he will even try to put her best foot forward too(haha wow).
For this next paragraph, please use the average meaning of the words I use.
Relationships, marriage, monogamy, loyalty to the opposite sex (sexually), etc are all products of the matrix. They don't exist. They are all wool that's been pulled over your eyes. There are only two things that you should be looking for in the beginning stages (ill break down the later stages later) - dtf or not?
You're in a relationship and things are going well. So what, dtf or not? You're married with children, it's a late night and you're in the mood. Dtf or not? She cheated on you? Not your problem, dtf or not? She calls you names and doesn't put out? Wow that's not sexy, dtf or not?
You shouldn't be worried about anything other than if she's dtf or not. I really hope you understand the importance of screening - get laid or get lost. As far as you're concerned, nothing matters except if she's dtf or not.She will handle building a non-physical connection - it's not your place nor is it your problem.
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