Your ego could potentially be holding you back. It hurts you when you get cheated on, takes away your killer instinct, and makes you lose touch with your best friend.. but there's a surefire way to stop your pesky ego dead in his tracks.
Monogamy is a joke. The rules don't apply to you, the women you deal with, or anyone else in the world. Women will forever be loyal to their emotions and men will forever be turned on by young hot women. If neither sex is making the relationship an absolute priority, how can you expect it to not go straight to hell when a guy makes your girl feel more or when a sexy young chick seduces you? Ego. Modern society has tapped into the male psyche - or rather his ego. Once a relationship goes awry, the male feels slighted/crushed/disgusted/destroyed because he feels as if he wasn't good enough and the lady of his eye found someone better. It's not that serious, bud. The relationship wasn't real in the first place.
Interactions with men and women (as perpetuated by me) all begin and end with whether on not she's dtf. If she isn't then the interaction dies because you eventually screen her out. There's no more time wasted and you can get on with screening more chicks. But what happens when you find a chick that has everything you need? What happens when she sucks an amazing cock, praises everything you do, and is loved by everyone dear to you? Wow what an amazing lady you have found! However eventually she is dtf less and less until you just know that sex isn't happening that night. She still has all of those amazing qualities, she just isn't dtf as often. Why have you not driven her away with your persistent screening? Why are you still spending time with her? Ego. Your ego won't let her go. It's robbed you of your killer instinct that you worked so hard to cultivate. Truth be told, it should never get to a point that bad if you're screening properly.
You only have one best friend in the world that consistently gives you the absolute truth and nothing but. Humans have a way of lying about something in one way or another so your best friend isn't human. It's more like a god - or supercomputer (whichever you prefer). This little friend is your gut. Trust him fully and you will never be led completely astray. Say for instance, you get into an official relationship (don't fucking do this - bro to bro) with the bombass pornstar from the previous paragraph. In the beginning, she had a boyfriend but you screened her at the perfect time. She was dtf and that she did - very very well. It was mindblowing! She proceeded to be any and everything you wanted for the next 8-10 weeks/months. Consistent sex with your perfect 10, constant praise for everything you achieve, and constant doting eyes. You've ignored the red flags of all her tattoos, her hitting the clubs on the weekend, and the fact that she had a bf when you met her. It's very very hard to control that heart in situations like this. And just like that, you're in the vehicle of love and your ego drove you there against the better judgement of your gut. It feels great....until she dumps you for the next thrill. Damn.. Ego.
Now how the hell do you circumvent the damage that your ego wants to cause? I'm sure there may be more efficient ways to do so, but my go to is a mantra. In almost every situation in regards to women the only thing going through my head is:
"Screen that pussy."
Just got cheated on? Ok....Screen that pussy
Feeling jealous over something that your lady friend did? None of my business....Screen that pussy
Wasting time sending pointless texts? Screen that pussy
Just got told that she's going to leave if you try to kiss her again? Screen that pussy x10
Just got a text from a cutie out of the blue? Screen that pussy
Been on a hot streak of 4 lays in a week? Right time right place. So what. Screen that pussy
Feeling horny, but have no lady friends to hang with? Go screen some pussy
A lady friend has been perfect for the past 2 months? Anyone could do it. Screen that pussy
Rejected 10 times in a row? Screen that pussy
A mantra keeps you grounded in reality and allows you to navigate more cohesively with your gut because you're keeping your mind out of it's way. Screen that pussy. It also allows you to feel emotions in full effect without worrying about how long they will last. Screen that pussy. You don't know anything else. You don't know jealousy, forcing dead relationships, getting sprung, getting too cocky, being afraid, etc. Screen that pussy. You'll finally be able to enjoy life and women. You'll finally be able to keep your head cool and your body controlled when everything is going your way or when things are totally against you. Screen that pussy.
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Stay Icy
In today's world, everyone texts. As a result, the redpill community and every other community has adapted. their take on the matter is to text as little as possible and to set up dates. In this post I'll explain to you how this is half wrong and half right. I'll also explain how to utilize texts to your benefit.
Texting, being on the phone, or anything else involving communication isn't a big deal. I couldn't tell you how many times it was recommended to me that I wait X number of minutes or hours before I text back.
I never really subscribed to the text games that most guys think that women play. The truth of the matter is, a woman with high interest isn't going to play any 'text games' with you or purposely make you wait.
If you've been properly screening every woman you're interested in, then playing or caring about text games should be a thing of the past. Here are a few examples of text situations that don't matter as much as you've been led to believe: