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Young lady displays ZERO self control, or clue how to behave during a traffic stop. Pulled over for 70 in a 35 and with children in the car, she proceeds to ignore the officer at her window, yammering on her phone instead. Volume warning, especially once she's seated in the back of the patrol car and has a Demon Screeching meltdown.
@Typo-MAGAshiv I'm not sure how many refugees ended on your soil since Trump spoke to the South African president. If you observe the numbers from the time the media was covering this heavily you'd realize the number of refugees has dropped significantly. Plus America is the one putting some South African farmers out of work by providing food aid that messing with the country's supply and demand.
@Typo-MAGAshiv the song emerged during the anti-apartheid resistance in South Africa's townships in the late 1980s. It was widely sung and popularized at a mass rally following the murder of South African Communist Party leader Chris Hani. The videos you saw was probably Julius Malema and his political party of the Economic Freedom Fighters, they sang the song during legal battles over whether it constitutes hate speech or protected free political expression. The song became popular because white farmer were abusing and killing their black workers during apartheid. Subsequent the murder of Chris Hani made it even more popular.
However, she says she wants to stay friends with benefits, and I told her I'm ok as long as she doesn't go around fucking anyone or meeting any other guy. She agreed. She says she still loves me and all but can't get this idea of me lying to her again and again out of her head, and that she can't trust me.
Ok. So she doesn't trust you for a relationship, but is open to fucking you while she looks for someone else.
What's happening here? On my end, I'm fine with this deal, on the other hand, why is she doing this to herself? She has been a 10/10 girl, I have said that I would be ok for her to continue our relationship together anytime, but she says she needs to stay alone for now.
Right. See above.
Another reason is she said if she stays with me all this while she felt unloved, because I've been neglecting her alot (which is true, i basically ignore her), and that I only find her for sex. She also says that if we stay together she will feel obligated to do lots of chores and housework for me, and even me telling her not to do them, she will continue. Says she needs a break
Right. I mean, see it from her point of view: you neglect her, you only want her for sex (which isn't as good as she would like because she feels neglected), and then she finds you are "tipping" other women. Which means what exactly.... strippers?
Please advise. I am now meeting her tonight for movies still, we are still gonna be fucking, but I don't understand why she would not want to pursue a relationship? (Could it be her own family and childhood trauma of parents divorcing etc? Single mother raised her after 12.)
I don't think this is salvageable. You took her for granted while with her, and you pursued other women. Your own actions scream that you don't want a relationship with this girl, maybe not any girl.
And that's fine, you don't have to have. But you do need to be honest with yourself about what you want. If it's FWB or multiple FWB or casual sex then admit that to yourself and do that. What you can't do is have a girlfriend, neglect her, tip other women, and expect her to be happy.
Read MoreRequirements: motivated, kind hearted, tall, strong, honest, hard working, lots of love for his [mother?], family and this little wench.
It is unreal to me how clearly this screams "be a provider, pay for my children, and don't expect sex because I'm a good little tattooed Christian whore."
I think I am safe after 40 years, maybe...
Although, looking back at it all, I did OK and who only knows where I would have ended up.
Some days, I am happy with how it all turned out and others I contemplate how much better it could have been if I had known more about TRP.
