I want the cake I have eaten back again. Give it to me wonder man who is rich and attractive yet can't see it and is strangely humble and shy.

The man she is looking for is the equivalent of an old man who has a run down farm that the city has been built all round. He thinks its a run down farm, she sees it as development land but buys it for the price of a run down farm. There may occasionally be some poor old farmer she can rip off but she will never rip off an attractive rich man in his prime like that. Rich attractive men know their value. She is a run down farm. Was probably very fertile decades ago but now the desert is advancing and there is mostly sand in the valley bottom where once fresh streams always ran. She is a bargain lot now, she can't trade for prime real estate. She would be best sold at auction to someone experienced and ready to go, who knew how to squeeze the last drops out of anything.