@Overkill_Engine comment gave me food for thought: https://www.forums.red/p/whereareallthegoodmen/325179/form_a_line_boys/7872612

“Yup. Women's desire is about as amoral as a dog in heat. The proof of this is in how many end up single moms after spreading their legs for men that were clearly not going to stick around for any woman.”

On WAATGM, the topic is usually women complaining about a lack of “men” (meaning hot men) or the leftover women or single mothers no longer getting approached.

In the case of many single mothers, however, the reason is that these women often married the first guy who asked her out. I actually have a dear friend that this happened to. She was sweet and shy and jealous of her younger brother who was getting American girls chasing after him due to his British accent at the time. For whatever reason, perhaps her tomboyish like interests, she wasn’t getting bites.

Finally some working class schmuck who worked as a dishwasher at a restaurant where she waitressed asked her out on a dinner date when she was about 19. He did the whole working class gentleman thing and later, when she finished nursing school, she husbanded him up. Lucky bastard!

My friend (her brother) remarked that perhaps her body was protecting her by refusing to get pregnant. About 10 years later she divorced him because he drank and couldn’t hold a job.

It makes me wonder that a lot of women who spread their legs and get married when young did so because they refuse to initiate relationships and accept that male burden. They weren’t necessarily hypergamous. They just detested doing the asking out and paying for their own dinner.

As a father, I avoid telling my daughter what to do because when she’s out of my control, she’s just going to default to factory settings or the clique around her. I explain to her history, consequences, and as importantly, provide her with tools.

When we first went to the playground at age 3, she wanted to play with kids and asked me to ask the kids to play with her. I explained to her that this was a very low risk rejection scenario, explained the emotions she and the other kids went through, and demonstrated how to ask kids to play with her. With the other child’s mother there, I would go up and say: “My daughter Sofia next to me wants to play hide-and-seek with your daughter. Would she like that?”

After only 1 or 2 cycles, my daughter was doing this on her own. I’m very proud of her. The teachers say she’s the social leader which is what I want. I don’t want her following the dummies.

I explained to her about tattoos, face piercings, and such in a similar way. I explained they were tribal largely for men going through rites of passage, and she quickly lost interest in them. As a father, I want her to be empowered, thoughtful, and ethical. I can’t stop her from messing up her own life if she’s determined, but at least she’ll understand what messing her life up means.

If I had a son, I’d advise him that there’s an opportunity in youthful courtship. It’s difficult in this era, but locking down untainted women in their teens going “steady” and then marrying after university is perhaps the best route to having a stable family. You protect her from the cock carousel but this comes at a cost: You need to be emotionally strong to handle the rejection when you are emotionally vulnerable. Granted, there’s fewer such women available since the cultural poison is utterly ubiquitous. Nonetheless, few women actually get BETTER with age so it’s like hitting the produce section at the supermarket the earliest before anyone else gets there. I think it also requires parents who will mentor their son and guide him through this difficult time.

If you’re a young person reading this, this. Is perhaps one of the most difficult eras to start a marriage. Consider this chart: https://pbs.twimg.com/media/HIAP0fyW4AAZYzM?format=jpg&name=large

Nonetheless, the good news is that the truth is out there. Best of wishes to the young men and women reading this!

I got married when I was 25, so fairly young I guess. At that time I had only been with a couple different women. After the divorce years later, my approach to dating was drastically different and I fucked a lot of different women. About 95% of all the women I ended up having sex with, which numbered at least 50+ (I lost count after a while), I would cum inside them every time we had sex. There were only I think 2 women who were pretty insistent on condoms at some point and I went along with it initially. It didn't much last past 2-3 times having sex.

My point of this post isn't to brag, rather to help you understand women are biologically hardwired to want that stuff inside them, on them, all sorts of ways if they are into you. I have talked to escorts before saying that they only fuck with condoms, whereas I've fucked women on the first date and damn near each one we were rawdogging it. Until you are actually involved in the middle of this, I think sometimes a lot of men have no idea just how filthy some women want to get.

So if this woman is wanting to start using condoms now after you've been having sex raw, something is wrong for sure. Could be any number of things but my top guesses are that she is actively fucking other men, you're too boring when fucking her and she probably wants it rough, or that she's making this an issue now because she wants it to become an issue so that the two of you break up.

For the record, and for anyone who doesn't already know about Hasan Piker (so far, it seems like most commenters are aware).

I'm granting myself and others an exception to rule 1 only within this post and only concerning Hasan Piker.

Essentially, the dude is a piece of shit.

1) He grew up richer than most people could ever dream of being, but does the champaign socialist thing of acting like rich people are inherently evil while still living a lavish lifestyle. Raging hypocrite. Says it's OK to steal from supermarkets because they built the cost of shrinkage into the prices, yet will cry about "food deserts" when supermarkets shut down due to being stolen blind.

2) he's only famous because of his Uncle Cenk, who features prominently in The Young Turks.

3) he was caught applying electric shocks to his dog to keep her in a certain spot during his podcasts, as though the poor thing is just an ornament rather than a living animal.

4) he has violated Twitch's terms of service on multiple occasions, yet they never do anything to him while banning other channels for much more minor infractions.

That's the gist. If you want any deep dives, ItsAGundam on YouTube has a few. I'm sure there are others.