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Unless she lives in Finland or Norway where the average adult male height is 5'11", being 6'1" or 6'2" tall is pretty rare.
When she says "but we're NOT having sex tonight"
I need to post in there again some time
So theres no real way of guaranteeing they wont cheat?
Nothing in life is ever guaranteed.
The best you can do is make your odds as favorable as possible.
I guess ideally you would want to be both “alpha” and “beta” then.
Beta/comfort must be earned by the woman. If you give too much too soon, you'll put her off.
If you consistently withhold it over time, she'll leave.
How are you actually meant to form any kind of connection with someone if thats the case?
You can still form connections. Just be ready for connections to end.
Have you read the sidebar material at the Married Red Pill subreddit?
I mainly recommend Athol Kay's book for the stuff you're asking. It's foundational for MRP, and I recommend guys who never plan to get married read it as well.
ROFL. I gotta tell you, this is one of the only video clips posted here that I actually enjoyed! She was actually pretty funny. 1960'a fridges with the lazy Susans, and back-fat Betty had me rolling :)
So I'll give her that. But since this WAATGM, I have to point something out. Not about her being fat.
By her own admission, she has no interest in a future with this guy. It's a pure hookup situation. Meanwhile, she has several age-appropriate men she's talking to, that have potential, that she's not having sex with. Normally we'd chalk this up to the young guy is an alpha chad and the older guys are Billy beta. But that's not the case. She says that this guy is shorter and not as good looking as the older guys, who are also more "established".
This is a common thing among women: guys that they know aren't going to last, they'll readily hook up with, but guys with potential, they'll vet hard for months even if they're more desirable. I can't tell you how many times I've heard women say "I'm going to go slow with this one because he might be real." And I'm thinking "you're literally about to some loser home that you found at last call at the bar tonight, but the guy who's hotter, treats you better, and that you might actually have a real future with, you're going to make him wait, because.... Reasons?"
It's another way women are their own worst enemies. Logic would dictate that if you find a guy that, after a few dates at most, you think is genuine, you'd start locking him down by throwing sex his way anytime he wants. But in their hamster-addled minds, it's the reverse: the guy you know is terrible for you, you find it easier to have a one night stand with, and the guy with potential, you want to make him wait. And usually, after making him wait, he gets tired and moves on (and eventually transforms into a guy who's not a good long-term prospect, since that's what gets rewarded) and you're left with a relationship you messed up, precisely thing you said you wanted to avoid.
Read More@Saltycroc several reasons, mostly simple:
1) Briffault's Law always applies. If the woman decides she's no longer benefiting, the relationship ends.
2) women make decisions based off of instinct and emotion. Don't expect their decisions to make any logical sense to an outside observer who is missing information (such as where she is in her monthly cycle).
3) it's frequently not about which man is objectively best, but rather the one she perceives (read feeeeeels) is best. This is why women's parents picked their husbands for millennia across all cultures; young women are terrible pickers. A man you perceive as "alpha" might be a spineless wimp when dealing with his woman behind closed doors. Famous example: Will Smith with his wife.
4) there's no such thing as an "alpha male". Alpha and beta are better understood as traits and behaviors that all men possess and display to varying degrees, with "alpha" being arousal and "beta" being comfort. This ties back to Briffault's Law and what the woman wants in that moment.
5) women are almost always seeking upgrades, especially if not currently satisfied for whatever (usually frivolous) reason.
6) some (many) women are just sluts, plain and simple.
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