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Reply To Heaviuh_Things - "Women with emotionally intelligent husbands are the exceptions"..."Most women will take on the emotional and relational labor in a marriage"....Please help me translate what dear Abby is saying, everyone.

Land_of_the_losers
5h ago 2026-04-26 21:22:10 WhereAreAllTheGoodMen Forum
the-niceguy.com

Here's another thing about "emotional labor"... if you work on a lot of group projects or in a lot of volunteer organizations for a long-term basis, people are always more intimately aware of the work that THEY THEMSELEVES are doing. They are very aware of their time, the unexpected problems that pop up for them, and so on. As a result, people subjectively over-estimate how much work that they do.

So you ask people "What is the percentage of the overall work that you FEEL that you are doing?" ... the answer will always be way higher than what is objectively true. So you get 10 people on a project who all claim to be doing 70% of the work.

So no shit that women self-report doing everything in their relationships for which concrete measurement is impossible. Conveniently, they don't bother asking men the same question.

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Vermillion-Rx
8h ago  The Hub
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@Typo-MAGAshiv

I've just decided to stop helping men who won't even do an approach I told them to do.

Or pretty much any one simple instruction. Or if they do it but they do it begrudgingly and then complain about it or that it didn't get immediate results or they can't even entertain step two I just stopped helping them

I don't take on any more men who just can't get it or do it at all

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Vermillion-Rx
1h ago  TheRedPill
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Watch what women complain about and you will find what they are lacking

Women have so much choice and opportunity that if she is complaining about something she is not getting, it isn't because she didn't find it or didn't have a chance to get it, it's because she did and still couldn't pull it

So if you see a woman complaining about her dating results, you can be assured she found what she was looking for and she keeps fumbling it. She is telling on herself that she keeps ruining opportunities that are in her hands

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Vermillion-Rx
1h ago  TheRedPill
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@lalola0101

This belongs in AskTRP

My first reaction is that she is probably a cluster B (narcissistic) and this is her tactic to control you

She knows what she is doing and you are falling for it. Avoid this woman. Women who do this are negotiating with you and trying to control you

It will never get better than this. Appreciate the head and avoid her

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Vermillion-Rx
3h ago  TheRedPill
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@Hamzter

Women are really easy to get in bed dude. If it's a struggle session to the point you're mad at the world it is 100% because of your social skills foundation/not having friends

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Vermillion-Rx
3h ago  TheRedPill
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@Hamzter

Do you have any male friends? Do you have any friends at all?

I find that men who choke on mountains of red pill content and self improvement content in general and still don't succeed are just missing fundamental social skills, which you are not going to find in red pill readings

Kind of impossible to succeed if your foundation can't even build game and RP on top of it

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Typo-MAGAshiv
13h ago  TheRedPill
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@First-light

Check how she treats waiters in restaurants, checkout staff, cleaners and colleagues -people she does not need to impress

I've followed and given that advice since before Red Pill even existed.

It's one of the pieces of advice that cuts both ways, too; women should also observe how men treat people they don't need or want anything from.

And more than just wait staff; even a lot of selfish, awful people know not to piss off someone who has unsupervised access to your food.

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Typo-MAGAshiv
14h ago  The Hub
@Butthead

@Bozza almost missed this reply. Been a weird few weeks for me.

Anyway, no.

A "simulation" is supposed to be close enough to fool a casual observer, but not an actual replication of the original.

Non-computer examples:

1) Duck decoys to lure in ducks.

2) wooden fake tanks the allies would build and leave in fields to lure German bombers into hitting fake targets.

If your buddy were to simulate your success, it would be akin to someone renting a luxury car and acting like it's his. Fake. No foundation.

If he wants real success similar to yours, then he needs to do one of the following: emulate, imitate, replicate, duplicate.

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Typo-MAGAshiv
14h ago  Tech Talk

@Bozza

I don't go well?

That's right you dysgenically stunted gypsy who most certainly projects about not going well because you don't go well which I have most scientifically proven for a fact in all ways

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