Women have very few things to do in life to succeed in the sexual – and to paradoxically greater and lesser extent the relationship – marketplace:

•Don't be a bitch
•Don't be a slut
•DON'T BE FAT

Nearly EVERY winning trait a woman can baseline to be desirable outside of baseline physical attractiveness and feminity is to simply ABSTAIN from doing things that tank their value

Contrast that with men who have to actually proactively increase their value with the presence of developmental results — women only need to REFRAIN from fucking up, which SHOULD be easy

Any time there is a fat hoe with an attitude, she has demonstrated that she absolutely doesn't give a shit about success when all she has to do is quite literally nothing disadvantageous to her success and she will succeed.

I would argue FAT is the worst of the 3 traits to abstain from

Because you can be a slutty bitch as a woman and you still are a desirable lay compared to the absolute excess (no pun intended) of FAT Western women to go around.

Even if you are a slutty bitch, if you are toned and look good as a woman naked you will still be - in some capacity - high value to a lot of men simply because of comparison to your competition

Any time I see a fat woman I see nothing but a disordered compilation of absolute self-destructive solipsism on display. She has no semblance of standards because even fat bitches can get ran thru like the plague spreading through a low-immunity pleb village in the 1500's in feudal Europe

There screams nothing more than not giving an absolute shit about life than a fat woman. They have easy mode even when they are a fat slob and they can't even be assed to simply not shove their fucking mouth with calories (mostly liquid fromm like beer, liquor, simple carbs, and ice cream)

Women have the easiest fucking path ever to hit A tier at the minimum simply because their competition is so fucked up that the bar is that low

Even with all the simps, beta and gamma males, white knights, and men who have absolutely zero capital in this world, men still have more intrasexual competition than women do because women are so willing to fuck chodes that even with that fact in mind women could easily outclass their peers merely by abstaining from vice

So any time I see a fat bitch (emphasis on bitch) I know she doesn't fucking care about anything but herself and barely at that because that is the number one trait relegating her to a casual slump buster status

Men will deal with a lying, cheating, slutty whore before they ever take a fat hoe seriously

I can't even address the other shit she mentioned because this rant is too long as is

I don't think any harm was done. She wasn't too keen sounding and you never really made a move. Then its ends up she has a boyfriend anyway. You could have gone charging in and asked her out but the result would have been the same -she wasn't up for it. Sometimes we can work things out without needing to ask.

Another time she might be keen, especially if she has split up with the boyfriend. Sure to some extent she will match your energy, so if you are upbeat and confident, she will have confidence in you but it also never hurts to read her energy. If she is not keen, then a pleasant chat is good. There might be a next time.

"Not bad" depends on your language, In French for example its not a bad thing at all to say. Its a bit understated but its heaps better than "I think you are a awesome" (and I will be a massive simp). There is a lot to say for being understated. Women always want big compliments -so let them work for them. Why not let her know you like her and also give her the idea that you know there is more out there that either she or others could bring? An understated gent is not bad at all.