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@SwarmShawarma Strong agree.
I believe that some elements of society should be socialist. Natural monopolies and healthcare are amongst those.
I challenge any man on this forum to turn a blind eye to a person in their community, a friend, a family member, an old person, in need because a few pieces of silver haven't crossed their palm.
If a man walked past a old man/woman in distress, he would rightly be ridiculed on this forum.
But yes you are right that the expansion of our generosity has been abused. And should not be.
@First-light I would add one caveat to it. Theoretically speaking NHS is a socialist idea.
Possibly it can work more or less efficiently but when the socialists go so much to the left that they will welcome everyone for free it has no right to work. Neither the NHS, housing, safety and whatever else.
Who the fuck wears safety glasses on the trails?
1l) Military Servicemembers, at least as far back as 2007.
2) I had originally misread your post and had thought you were doing yardwork for some reason. Still doesn't change anything, though, especially if you have tinted lenses.
Who the fuck wears safety glasses on the trails? That was my boss's first comment through some laughter when I called in for today and you were wearing your safety glasses!
I have about four pairs in my car....
If that's the definition of rape then I'm a super rape victim
At least I've told women I don't want to date/marry them
@siriusblakk416 There is only one size for all solution, block her everywhere and move on. ANy other solution requires hand holding and so much mental gymnastics that you will spend life on an attempt to fix this Frankenstein, rather than having fun or building yourself.
Besides: no one will hand gold you
11m ago Ask TRP Forum
LTR backed out of paying for my ticket after offering multiple times. How to handle?
LTR and I have been together, currently not long distance because she came to stay with me (travelled intercontinental). She’s going back to NYC soon, which would make us long distance again unless I go there.
This is a prosperous relationship for me because she will be able to provide a green card for me.
Flights are around $800.
Over the past period, she repeatedly brought up that she would put the ticket on her credit card (in her name). I interpreted that as her investing into the relationship / making sure we avoid long distance for ~4 months.
I didn’t jump on it immediately — I kept things ambiguous and even pushed back a bit (“let’s wait for prices to drop”), partially because prices were genuinely high. But I guess that was dreading for her because she would never know if I truly intend to come back to NYC.
Since she moved in here, 10 days ago, I regretfully showed my intent of coming back to NYC, so I guess she lowered her guard and now realises that regardless of whether she buys me the ticket, I will come to NYC.
Situation:Today I initiated with:
“When are you going to do it?”
She said:
“These couple of days.”
Later in the day, while we’re relaxed (I’m sitting, she’s on my lap, everything normal), she suddenly says:
“You can pay your own ticket.”
I respond:
“You said you would do it though.”
She backtracks:
“Really? I think I was joking and you misunderstood.”
I hold frame:
“No, you mentioned it multiple times.”
She gets slightly uncomfortable and asks:
“Are you mad?”
I say:
“No. Just a bit disappointed. You said you’d invest in the relationship, now you’re saying you won’t.”
She suggests:
“Maybe we talk about it tomorrow.”
I say:
“No need to talk about jt, we can shelve it.”
We sit in silence ~30 mins. She reopens:
“Maybe we should talk about it more.”
I respond more withdrawn:
“About what?”
She:
“The ticket.”
Me:
“No need.”
Then I go back to normal behavior but slightly reduce attention.
Current read: She’s clearly uncomfortable and will likely bring it up again.
Question: What’s the optimal move here?
Push for her to follow through since she offered?
Stay withdrawn and let her come back to it?
Drop it completely and self-fund to avoid frame damage?
Or is there a better angle here?
Read More@Vermillion-Rx Gosh I didn't know I was a rape victim. Wow. I have been raped by a number of women who lied to get me to pick them. I never realised. Gosh there are a lot of a rapists about after all. The liberals were right all along.
Stretch a word enough and it can accommodate all sorts of things. Rape is like a fat slag's pussy -stretched so far that no one normal can be sure if they are in or out.
