Hey all, I'm try to keep this as short as possible. For the past year it appears, I've been dealing with females who are moderately attractive (usually high 6s - high 7s, rarely low 8s) yet so weird that there looks don't make up for the bizarre behavior. I just ceased communication with one who admitted she's immature, complaining, disagreeable over a week ago and just found out the 1 I'm talking to is an alchemist.

For comparison, I'm nowhere as weird as the examples so it's not simply a case of like attracting like. I've self reflected and concluded that I am attracting these females because I'm punching above my weight class in the sexual market. Because of this, for the most part, when I do score the only females with the purely superficial SMV I'm going for who are receptive are those who for whatever reason can't get a man in their respective class. These include the whores, the mental unstable, & the weirdos. Luckily I haven't had any (known) recent interactions with the crazy ones and the whores aren't going to make me seek advice. When I interact with less attractive women I never experience bizarre behavior.

I know the only way to permanently fix this issue is to obviously raise my smv & I will focus on that once I get through this final difficult leg in my med school program (this has been a trying experience these few years) but, until then, could anyone give me advice on how to quickly surmise something is amiss? Please be mindful that, in my experience, the more attractive these females weirdos are, the more effort they put into hiding it. The one I cut off didn't start revealing how odd she was until months after meeting, when she felt comfortable. The attractive weirdos I've been dealing with either express beliefs severely incompatible with reality (such as the alchemist), have significant issues with human communication and interaction beyond surface level (to the point that society would easily toss around the autistic label if they were men) or both. I really feel irritated because this is time I cannot get back and would like to be more efficient with how I spend it. Thanks in advance

Side question: do any of you believe that gaining 15-20 pounds of muscle within 6-7 months is feasible as a vegetarian?

do any of you believe that gaining 15-20 pounds of muscle within 6-7 months is feasible as a vegetarian?

I highly doubt it.

Besides, we're meant to eat meat.

[the main question]

I doubt this issue has much to do with you or your SMV.

Really, the best you can do is act as non-judgmental as possible so that they're comfortable sharing shit as soon as possible.

For example, if you two are watching the news together and there's a report of some black magic witchcraft practicing heathens sacrificing neighborhood kids, resist the urge to say "what a bunch of retarded freaks".

Milder, less silly example: if someone mentions horoscopes or astrology, resist the urge to roll your eyes and/or say "what a crock of shit!"

You're probably acting more judgmental around them than you realize.

And for the sake of other guys who encounter them in the future, don't break things off the nanosecond you discover something like that. Give it a few days, then do what must be done.

A lot of this comes down to easily observable filters and environments. Avoid:

Traits

• Liberal-leaning women/feminists (you'll get spirituality, whichcraft, eccentric types, more mental disorders)
•Dyed hair (yes even for normal colors like her natural red dyed brown, etc.)
•Extra piercings (piercings that aren't in the usual starter spots. She got them with every heartbreak, grape, and alpha widow)
• Eccentric types (they're wearing eccentric shit, eccentric hair and piercings)
• Niche women (niche interests as indicated by their clothes/tattoos/other visible cues like gamer girls, anime girls, superhero/marvel/comic book, punk/emo, etc.) basically any group of girl that is trying to fit into an oddly introverted niche for a woman is going to be a weirdo with almost absolute certainty
• Odd speech patterns, quirky, visibly dyke-ish, LGBTQ+²√÷, looks malnourished (really anything that just seems off and not instantly striking you as healthy or well-adjusted is going to be a certified weirdo
• Autistic-like woman (gonna be a weirdo, autistic-ish women are infinitely more weird than autistic men)
•Victim mentality/trauma dumping/quick physical interest, immediately low boundaries (narc tell, going to be a mental headache cluster B type weirdo in your life)
•Irritable/masculine (shouldn't need an explanation she is going to be weird and unpredictable)
•Poor attention span (yes more poor than the average woman, she is going to have some ADHD type shit and be weird)
•Drug user/heavy drinker (if she does any drugs, has any weed or mushroom clothes or accessories or any other kind of drug or rave type shit she is going to be weird as fuck)
•Young girl look (short hair like a young girl, like barely past her ears chin, little girl hairstyles, bows in hair to go with short hair, very young girlish clothes etc. certified grape survivor. She is trauma locked at the age it happened at. Run)
•She says she owns a pet (women don't value animal companionship like men do, if a woman has a pet she's a lonely certified weirdo. If she has a cat she is crazy. If she has a dog she is traumatized/has emotional damage. If she has a horse she is a fucking freak with entitlement to go with it. If she has a reptile or a rat she is a certified sick fuck do not engage). •Probably missing some I'll edit if I think of them.

Environments

•Bars/Night Venue (drinker, okay with random strange men touching her and going home with psychos she doesn't know. Weirdo)
•Pot shops, smoke shops, hooka (weirdos)
•Raves/festivals (ran through. She probably already has nut still in her when you introduced yourself)
•Biker (motorcycles, she's traumatized and a weirdo)
•Niche places (anime conventions, role play, board games and video game events, fucking weirdos with anxiety disorders)
•Wild parties (only weird women enjoy that shit)
•Sketchy places (if the place feels sketch at all and the dudes there are fucking weird then every girl there is weird. No well-adjusted woman would be able to stand that environment for 30 seconds at most).
•Dance places (dancers are fucking weird)
•Sex positive environments (any place with an overt sex theme has attracted certified female freak weirdos)
•Dog parks (look I already said girls with pets are fucked up, you are asking for weirdos. She should like your dog, not have one herself)
•Really anything late at night (Well adjusted women enjoy normal waking hours and sleeping hours)
•Dating apps (they already bombed out in real life because they are fucking weirdos. Swiping on pixels to find love is fucking weird).
•Sex apps (like the overt kind, fucking weirdos)
•A protest or anything liberal (progressive liberal women are weirdos)