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@throwaway_old_guy have you figured out what to do with your life?
@throwaway_old_guy apart from your privacy settings I think it's due to the song being explicit.
First of all, thank you - I thought my life sucked right now at 27.
Nothing wrong with taking yourself out, nothing wrong with being sober.
I quit drinking about 8 months ago. Best decision ever - but still occasionally drop molly, lucy, whatever. And molly was my date last weekend for a halloween event and I have zero regrets.
Don't go and be a wall flower. Doesn't matter if you suck at dancing. Just move your shoulders and feet to the beat. Sway around a little. Don't spaz out but just flow with it. Don't try to stand out, just smile and have fun.
Best way to gain social momentum is making positive statements about clothes/tattoos/etc on people or asking them questions about themselves. People love to talk about themselves.
Aside from that, get a job and get in the gym.
Last night I realized I had no Halloween plans and on a whim decided to buy tickets and a costume for a party on Halloween night hosted by a local club/casino. There will be electronic live music.
Look. It's great that you made plans on a whim, men take action and shoot their shot. That said, don't treat this like it's some opportunity you NEED to accomplish something on. The investment is already leaking through.
When you do spur of the moment as a man just treat it like a fun thing, no seriousness.
my social skills as they are severely fucking retarded from the last couple years.
One party is quite a lot for these expectations. Parties are hard mode unless everyone is equally socially starved.
I can't dance for shit
Guess who has dance guides on here
"Sexy"
uhuh
because my cvnt mother got me arrested on felony charges and I'm on probation essentially and get drug tested every 3-5 days.
you can say CUNT on here. I've had doghsit experiences with my mom, too and yes not being able to drink makes some game harder.
Based on what you are saying here you probably do not need drunk whores in your life anyway.
Treat it as a blessing in disguise that you need to make sober game decisions. Many women who drink are severely broken.
It sounds like damaged women are NOT what you need right now anyway. That being said, avoid drunk sluts at this party
1) because you being sober and them being drunk is legally precarious if they crash out
2) They are going to be drunk sluts and all the red flags that come with drunk sluts
So, please give me some advice so I can work out a game plan.
Unfortunately, your problems are way more social than you want them to be according to your own words. Treat this party as a throwaway learning experience that you want to have for fun
Like i said, parties are hard mode if you are socially rusty. You should start small talking more people if your social skills are as rusty as you say they are.
Just socialize and don't hard encode this night into your identity. Just socialize and learn.
I am 25 years old, white, 6'4" and skinny with little muscle.
You have an excellent height and almost no muscle. So lift. You shouldn't waste a height advantage like this. Lift
I don't have height inserts either.
Why the fuck would you need height inserts?? first of all that is black pill bullshit anyway.
Secondly, you're already 6,4" why is this even a discussion?
You should read the sidebar if you haven't yet.
Yes, your mom fucked you over. That shit sucks. But besides that point it sounds like you do not have any of the groundwork laid to succeed even if she hadn't done that to you.
So you need to lift and learn conversation skills...
You're trying to go slay at this party with seemingly no foundation. You're not going to get a game plan out of this with no foundation and recent hardships
It's possible for you to do well if you just vibe with some chick and play it cool, but honestly man, you need to start laying a foundation
You said nothing about your experience level or anything so we can't even determine if you're in a good place to game. It is unclear. I assume you have almost no experience with women from your post.
Read the sidebar. (We are working on a new one but it will be a few months till it's all done so look at the legacy sidebar):
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