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@Vermillion-Rx Do you not mind it being AI? A couple of weeks ago I realised my youtube music playlist had become a feed of AI music like this, and I had to purposefully recalibrate it back by unliking and skipping them for a few minutes.
If you like it you like it, I'm just curious. Obviously I liked some of them, which is why my feed became that way. I don't want it all to be that, though.
Life's good, man, thanks for asking. Kids are good, marriage is good, and I've got a good work/play balance.
How are things with you?
2h ago 2026-09-20 06:47:21 WhereAreAllTheGoodMen Forum
I’m thinking that “30s” is doing some pretty heavy lifting here. Late 30s is still “30s,” but the prospects of an attractive woman who was 29 a week ago and that same woman when she’s a week from being 40 are very different.
I liked taking women out for dinner as a first date. Even if it didn’t go well, I got a good meal and leftovers for another nice meal at home. I didn’t go to fancy restaurants, so it was never too expensive.
I wouldn’t even want to meet this woman whose face is frozen and overly made-up, let alone sit and talk to her on a dinner.
The place to hit on women is either at the gate or the flight itself, because that's where you know both of you are going to be at the same place.
The gate is particularly good, especially if it's a vacation spot. If I'm flying to places like Miami or Vegas, my buddies will often start the party at the gate, having a few drinks, chatting and laughing about our plans, etc. and it's not uncommon that women will come up to us, or else we'll chat them up. Thing is, they're looking for guys to hang out with once they get to the destination too, so it's a ripe environment to make some early plans.
Similarly, on the airplane, if you happen to be seated next to someone open to conversing, you can often pick them up.
I've even kept things going after we get back, in that, since both of us are from the same city, when we get back, we might still go on a few dates.
I've even had a female friend find her husband at the airport: he chatted her up at the gate, they were both going back to their home City, and so they started dating.
But this woman's problem is that she's at an airport bar, which means you could be going to one of a million destinations. The chances we'll actually be able to see each other is basically nil. Not worth it. Especially not with the price of drinks at an airport these days.
Read MoreHe's not necessarily impressive on paper
Neither are you. You think your academic and career accomplishments mean anything at all?
He's not necessarily attractive
Neither are you. Pretty is as pretty does. Your attitude makes you ugly, your haughtiness and entitlement nullify any natural beauty that you might be hiding under the layers of chemicals.
Modern women ruined one of the best grifts they could have had by pulling a Lucy Van Pelt too often on men they knew well in advance they had no true interest in, just to get some free drinks or meals.
And now more and more men completely refuse to offer anything like that in advance unless a woman demonstrates actual interest first.
I would never buy a drink at an airport. Probably 4x the cost of bars, which are overpriced as it is. I bet that little glass of wine is $20. I make totally natural, fine fruit wines with no additives or flavors or sulfates for around $4 per bottle. Most of it is consumed by my wife and I on dates, a chivalrous use of alcohol. You are not.
Also, what are you doing at an airport drinking by yourself? That's just cringe, seems like something an alcoholic would do.
Also, what are you doing in an airport by yourself? Women traveling alone is a bad idea, and probably just means she's been whoring herself out all over Europe or something.

