Hello guys, hope you are doing great. I want to give an update after ghosting my LDR (1 month now) and saving a shatter of my self-respect by doing so.

Gym progress is going good, I resumed dating, and I can say that I’m pretty good now, even though the first 3 weeks were a little bit hard bit after what i found i moved on pretty good.

After my emotions began to wane, what I found was gut-wrenching. Not only was I cucked without being aware, but the bitch had pleasure playing me and cucking me while her AF was in her bed in her city. She was sending voice messages and I could hear his breathing, slapping her ass, and laughing.

Those voice messages, I always listened to them while driving, so I never paid attention to the background sounds.

As I said in a prior post: To catch a cheating hoe, track her menstrual cycle and pay attzntion when she becomes very affectionate. I always had a gut feeling that the bitch was up to no good.

I rechecked all the voice messages she sent during those days, and guess what I found:

One day after we spent 2 days together in her city, while we were laying in bed, she reduced the phone luminosity and sent some shit. I was suspicious (this was after 1 month of dating), but I brushed it off and said this bitch was up to no good.

Before going back to my city, I dropped her near her home to a “female friend” (she said). After ghosting, I came back to the voice messages she sent saying she got home safe. What I found was that the bitch was having a threesome (moaning and heavy breathing of a male and another girl close).

Another day, I had a gut feeling. What I found was that she was having an orgy. Yes, an orgy, I’m not being delusional.

Another finding was that the bitch was laughing at my voice messages with her AF while he was slapping her ass (I said nothing that was funny).

While doing all this crap , the ho was showing massive amount of jealousy ( ex: one day a group of girls were sending strong eye contact and she lost her temper and asked if i know them)

I dumped her because she violated a boundary, but what I found afterward was even worse.

I’m showing my gratitude to you guys today for bringing me to do the right thing and at least regain a little bit of self-respect.

Thank you again. I know the hoe was never LTR material from the get-go (met her on Bumble), but I still tried to give her a chance and in a LDR.

It’s peak female privilege that she thinks that a man has “nothing to lose” by making an unsolicited pass at a woman he doesn’t know.

In her “meet cute” fantasy, the man is always someone she finds attractive. If some Poindexter walks up to her after Yoga class and asks her out, it’s HIGHLY PROBABLE that she’ll decline, at which point the outcomes within the context of the class range from “permanently awkward” to “told to never come back.” On the other hand, if she’s one of the MANY women who enjoys humiliating men in-person or online, he can lose a lot more than access to a hobby.

She’s young, reasonably attractive, and has a nice rack that she’s obviously not shy about flaunting. She risks absolutely nothing by approaching any man she finds attractive, so it never occurs to her that only a vanishingly tiny percentage of men share that privilege.