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male driven cultural suppression of female sexuality
I doubt that this chick's sexuality has been suppressed by anyone or anything at any time, unless repeated hungover morning Walks of Shame count as a form of suppression.
It occurs to me that there is an important lesson for men here who practise "game" a bit too religiously.
She always took 2 times the time to reply to his message as he did to reply to hers plus 10 minutes. She had her won game formula. Don't forget gents girls are playing these games too! You are only seeing what she wants you to see. If you both play this trying to be more reluctant than the other to message, failure at an early stage is guaranteed!
As far as I know, girls actually started doing this systematically earlier than men. There were books like "The Rules" (if I recall what female acquaintances were raving about in the 90's). A lot of the more systematic male game developed as a response to women being utterly in control of huge options.
In this autistic arms race there will only be losses on both sides. Its supposed to be a relationship not a control game! You are supposed to want to text her and she is supposed to want to text you. It is supposed to be about more than logistics to fuck. The once attractive woman who wrote the article wasted her youth in this game. Gents take note.
Read MoreSo I am retiring the strategy. I am done auditioning for the role of Cool Girl. She was exhausting to play – and frankly, the reviews were mixed. I’m replacing her with a woman who texts back. Who says what she means. Who admits she wants to be held. It is a terrifying bet. It goes against 30 years of training. But I’m betting on this: The right man won’t want a challenge to conquer. He’ll want a partner to rest with. And God knows – I am ready to rest.
One tiny problem there... that right man was 30 years in her past. Your average 50-year old man has too much experience with women and not enough attraction for aged hags for her to have a realistic chance.
I wasn’t training them. I was hiding.
Oh but you were training them you stupid hag. It just wasn't training them to do what you wanted. You were teaching them that "anyone else" would be a better prospect. You and millions upon millions of crones and crones-to-be, all of you marching in lockstep for decades, meaningfully differentiated only by the increasing wrinkles of age etched upon your faces like serial numbers for slags.
And now you have your just rewards. Solitude, desperation, and the indifference of men that realized they can do better than you.
We treat them mean because we think kindness reads as desperation in a woman our age. And the deeply annoying part is: it works. Beautifully. Just in the wrong direction. Treat ‘em mean is a filtration system for avoidants.
Oh look, a split second of clarity...
When you perform unavailability, you don’t attract secure men. Secure men don’t want a puzzle. They want a person. They want to know if you’re free on Friday so they can book a table. Play the game, and you attract the hunters – men who love the chase because the chase requires no intimacy. Men addicted to voltage. To uncertainty. To the spike.
There it is, the cope and blame redirection instead of admitting she was chasing men too far above her station in life instead of settling for a mere mortal on the same level as herself. Bitch-Icarus flew too close to the Chad-sun and her wings melted but somehow that's all his fault.
Drown in the sea you cunt.
Read MoreIt goes against 30 years of training.
So you made no choices about your own behavior in those years, eh? It was all stimulus-response. Pavlovian knee-jerking. Puppeteers pulling your strings.
Thank god you've clawed back some control over your own actions now, eh?
Talking with a new bartender at my favorite dive. Tall, skinny gothic six, with too much metal in her face. It's a little slow so she keeps circling back for conversation.
This goes on for about half an hour before I realized she thinks I'm actually interested in fucking. She complimented my style. Grabbed my hand to laugh with me.
Then in comes Sam. She interrupts our conversation, "Hey Kloi! Where's Libby?" While I'm explaining she's unpacking as I just moved her in, I see the gothic girl's face go from pleasant to sour.
After my interaction with Sam, goth bitch checks on me once to ask how the food is. Ran into Sam this morning and we had a good laugh over conversation how the new girl felt lead on. In Sam's words, "she thought you two were really connecting."
There's two take aways, first is on the female hamster. They'll automatically assume you're interested in them if you give them a miniscule amount of time/interest.
This plays into the second. This was casual, bar room banter. I never hit on or complimented her. I didn't even realize we were flirting. It wasn't until about 15 minutes into talking with her, that it even dawned on me she was interested.
This is what I mean by being a social butterfly. I just talked to her like I would anyone. Challenged an idea or two of hers. That was all it took to get her tingling.
Read MoreJesus man, it’s time to move on. I get she was a hoe and not LTR worthy.
But it’s been a month, and you are going through old messages. (Not new ones, right?)
You’re giving her rent free space in your head, 1 month AFTER the breakup. Time to move on. Nothing you learn from here will make you feel better.
On the bright side, glad to hear you are out and about with other ladies!
Sheesh, she has one amazing hamster wheel. Its like a wheel in a gyroscope. She can hamster every angle. She is having her eggs harvested at 38 because of non committal men. She only wanted FWBs for a while. She only had one non committal guy. A Chad wanted to marry her for 6 years. She thinks the patriarchy exists and benefits men after a life of calling the shots with them and dumping them, only getting once burnt with a player.
Ok lady you are a perfect example of an attractive woman (I am assuming the photos was of an attractive woman before it was covered up?) who played the field and rode the carousel tell she was all ridden out. I bet she will trey to "settle" in the next few years. It won't work. She ruined herself by enjoying her options.
Most men actually want and benefit most from relationships
Oh yeah? Are those men all using time machines to get women who put real effort in a relationship, instead of just spreading her legs and expecting her man to spoil her for it?
I don't even get what the hamster is doing anymore, what does the modern woman actually believe she's contributing in a serious relationship that compensates all the shit she demands?
