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@Stigma Unfortunately, the sheep will not actually realize these facts and always be sheep. NPC cattle only understand coercion to be actually put in line. You can't ever in fact actually logicize in fact always illogically hyperemotional cattle such as the majority of human they literally think way in fact too much with their emotions instead of logic and factually objective information. It's all about their feelings and emotions and always in fact hyperemotionally argue like still hysterically oversensitive women with their emotions and feelings (the betas) without logic and without facts. I have literally encountered beta cucks in the Internet, despite actually giving them the really scientific facts of women being really hypergamous and the still scientifically confirmed facts they're literally preferring really dark triad men which is a form of mental hypergamy as short-term partners (pump and dump) doesn't actually ring them.
They're in fact always too hyperemotionally bewitched by really sweet-sounding words and how trutho-phanic they look on their eyes instead of the still truthfully factual essence of things.
So a woman saying:
"The interviewer is handsome, alive, warm, engaged, intelligent. Clav is cold, monotone, one dimensional, detached, irritated."
And they're immediately thinking "wow this "ideology" makes me like that, let's be a beta cuck again".
Read More@Wahmyn Women are really creepy they have a reproductive hole which has lovecraftian tentacles and wraps my dick and sucks it in forcing me to sex so they're actually creepy-rapey as well, so you're actually projecting, if we're disgusting why you in fact still always have sex with all of us here? Whoooorreee!
@Vermillion-Rx Takes too long to twist your torso to throw a punch if you're build like Johnny Bravo.
She is amazed she has a degree and does not have a boyfriend.
I am pretty sure there is a correlation between a woman's education level and her likelihood not to have a boyfriend. High debt, entitlement princess who got years of free cock carousel riding at a liberal indoctrination facility is not a good thing to have on your CV when applying for the post of girlfriend.
I like how she talks about choosing clothes and getting ready and spending time together as if the man isn't making the same contribution.
If splitting the bill excludes women like her form your options, then it sounds a really good idea to me.
Post wall and selfish. What does she offer?
Context is everything.
"Happy birthday" "Aww thanks" is not cheating. Its being polite and a woman who does not hate her ex is really a good thing. Remember when your turn ends you will be next in line. But its also more than that its not holding a grudge, which bodes well for the relationship while it lasts too.
Flirting is the gateway to cheating and I would say that would be unacceptable. You will have to work this out as more of a dance than as a red line she must not cross because circumstance and context change the rules of engagement. Say for example he is hitting her up, saying flirty stuff and wanting to meet up with her and then she even replies to his shit, then no that is not right but if he just opens with happy birthday, we will have to see what happens.
There is a distinct possibility that she is keeping him as the reserve guy in case you don't work out. That you will have to live with. You can't stop her thinking like that but she will have to keep things on the purely friendly side or you can lay down a red line and dump her if she crosses it. The red line is flirting. Whether or not you warn her is our choice. I am imagining from the sound of your other posts that you have already warned her plenty, so I would be wary about overdoing this or you will come over insecure.
Being paranoid and controlling makes you look weak and it will actually make her more likely to be unfaithful as she ill despise your weakness.
Your best bet here is to say "It's my turn. I am going to enjoy the hell out my turn and get on with enjoying her" If she chats to him you can monitor. If she looks at risk of going too far you can calmly advise. If she goes too far you can warn she has crossed a red line and then you will have a choice to make if she keeps going against your warning -dump or be weak. But that is really all you can do in the modern western world. You have no sole pussy access rights. You can only encourage her to choose to grant them to you and no other. Threats of dumping are a last resort and if you don't follow them through you are clearly weak and at great risk of being a cuck. So try not to push her too hard. Try to keep it light and happy and to lead her towards you and thus away from him.
Read MoreMy brother, what is going on here?
Why are you exclusive with this girl and still getting her for an LTR? That like jumping into the swimming pool before it's filled with water.
Now your boundaries are your boundaries. No one should be able to tell you what's important to you. But lack of frame and confidence will repulse women 100 percent of the time.
You're going to have to get used to women having a past and them also having a sex drive. The less you give a shit about other guys the stronger you look and the less she will want to stray.
I'm saying this out of complete honesty. There are guys here that will try to control their women out of fear and insecurity. That's a terrible way to do things. You want your girl to submit voluntarily.
An ex wishing her a happy birthday is the most innocent thing you can encounter. If this is going to spin you out, you may need to do some inner work on your confidence.
Enjoy your relationship. If you go out looking for problems you're going to find them.
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