@Typo-MAGAshiv I have seen this in sport alone. At age 12 there are hoards of nice little girls who all want to please daddy and be sportswomen or athletes. Of these there is always at least one girl sobbing at the end of any track race or games match.

The sobbing continues till about 15/16 at which point 90% of the nice little girls we started with have got big hips and tits/ got lazy and hormonal/ got boyfriends they would rather be blowing/ got hair and makeup that are too good to spoil, got girlfriends to shop/ smoke/ drink with etc etc. They have all quit, in fact its more than 90%.

One is then left with a "hardish" core of young women athletes who are still to be honest as soft as fresh snow. (Don't break the crust on their fluffy nerves and they might get somewhere). These girls do not necessarily break down and cry when they lose but they still probably would if a coach bawled them out or if they fell hard or something.

Watching coaches humour these girls into training harder when boys are simply basically told to "do it or become a loser" is a bit nauseating and one does tend to think "sport was not made for women and it shows" But the art of succeeding with women in sport is not to treat them like men but accept their limits and work around the hive mentality.

@mkeehl

Should I date my oncologist?

I'm a 31 yo male and she is 36. She's been treating me for over a year now and things have been strictly professional between us.

I had such bad diagnosis, I'd given up on dating altogether since chemo made me a walking zombie. Now that things are a little passive I've gotteb back into dating.

Anyway, this girl asked me out to take a walk and talk about immunotherapy one time. Then she bought us some food and drinks. I was so caught up in my shit I didn't even see that she was kinda flirting the whole time.

We've been casually exchanging texts over past few weeks. It was regular oncology stuff with a few not so appropriate jokes for an oncologist, but she took it well and responded in kind.

I saw her an hour ago and since we were alone she was very playful and teasy. I don't think I'm imagining stuff since a doc should not be complementing me on my beard and making sarcastic jokes about our "relationship".

Anyway, I've had my fair share of relashionships and I can tell when a woman is into me (at least a little).

The question is, should I take the initiative at trying to make this situation into something serious at least in a sexual way?

It's no big deal to me either way, I can say nothing and move on. She's a nice person and I'm thankful for her attentive treatment.

The big question is this - is it even worth dating your oncologist? I have a 25 fbw so it's not a necessity for me to do this rn.

Btw, my ex broke up with me a year ago shortly after my diagnosis. She said I'd been absent and cold and she couldn't take it anymore. Who tf u kidding bitch, it's my stage 4 cancer you can't take anymore lol.

Thanks in advance brothers

Study the book. You don't need our permission or approval to ask your oncologist out on a date. Best case, she says yes. Worst case, she says no, and passes you off to another oncologist.

While I honestly hope that she sees it as flattering, you should probably ask yourself what's changed in your life that you're now interested in asking her out after knowing her for a year. I don't imagine dealing with stage four cancer has been easy for you, especially as a psychotic ex broke up with you following the diagnosis. Consider taking sometime to assess how to get yourself out of the isolated mental state your cancer treatment has left you in. Regardless, good on you for keeping an eye out for the ladies.

@brazilianxof

Doing stuff "for woman"

So we all say "do for yourself, not for girls". I saw why in my personal life. But what to do when things i enjoy are either solo activities or "at home" ones?

Let's say i want to meet people. I dislike crowded places. When in the gym, i want to workout. So i'll need to do random things for other people, taking with me the "starving dude" vibe. And solo because my friends are all caged by wives. They don't walk two steps without them.

For ex. I was thinking about joining Crossfit, a Dance or Trekking groups for socializing. But i know (we know) it's for woman. How do i enjoy life this way?

There is a video where Bronn and Jaime Lannister are talking about "an army of men without cocks". And it's very reality-check. All we do is pussy-driven.

m. youtube.com/ watch?v= ZAMYXp8jE9o

www.youtube.com/watch?v=aRHzm-wPTr8

Study the book. As a man, you'll never know what strength of discipline and character you have until such a time as you can tell a beautiful woman 'no', and stand firm in your refusal regardless of what attempts to sway you to her thrall she might otherwise employ.

As for activities, try meetup and eventbrite dot com, or the events listings on your preferred social media. There's not much you can do solo, that there aren't groups actively involved into doing socially.